Is your tender hearted Pisces man really hurt by something, and you want to make him feel better? Did you perhaps say or do something that made him take a pause for reflection? Whatever happened, you may want to know how to apologize to a Pisces man.
Something else you need to understand is that when a Pisces man is hurt, he tends to never be consistent. His mind and feelings are always flowing, but may flow in different directions.
While he deals with his day, he may develop a bad mood, depressed mood, or he may have a great day. You never really know what you’re going to get when you’re spending time with him.
Remember that he’s empathic, and if he picks up on anyone else’s energy that causes him to feel down, angry, or anything else… it may impact how he is with you or around you.
Keep reading, and I will show you how to comfort a Pisces man when he is hurt.
When A Pisces Man Is Hurt — How Do They Act When Hurt?
Pisces man is greatly influenced by his emotions. He is a dreamer and senses things on a deep emotional level. He is very intuitive and empathic. When a Pisces man isn’t feeling good about himself, he takes a nosedive. Until he figures himself out, he’s no good to anyone relationship wise.
A Pisces man acts cold and simply crawls back to his crab shell. Pisces men are easily hurt and so it’s not uncommon for him to get hurt by something you really didn’t mean in the way he took it.
Whether or not you’re involved in his feeling hurt, he’s going to need some solitude in order to work things through in his mind. While he may be willing to talk to you about it, let him do it in his own time. You cannot force him.
The wounded Pisces man will not typically open up to just anyone. He wants to feel safe and trusted with the person to whom he decides to confide his woes. If you’re his partner, then this would be you.
Pisces men have one of the most specific love languages of all Zodiac signs. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Pisces Love Language guide.
I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his Love language and finally connect with him in the right way.
Do Pisces Move On Quickly After Being Hurt?
Well, a Pisces man cannot move on quickly because he is trying to avoid failure. He never wants to appear as a bad guy, and sometimes it’s easier to just be really distant.
I know it sounds kind of twisted, but this is how totally emotionally tied a Pisces man is. Avoiding hurting anyone is his goal. He won’t want to hurt whoever is involved. It’s guilt for selfish reasons. This is why he takes time to move on. He cannot easily let go.
There’s A Right Way To Apologize To A Pisces Man — Here’s How
If you hurt your Pisces man with something you said or did, you’ll need to sincerely apologize to him. While it may take him time to process what happened along with your apology, he will get the message.
You are probably wondering how to say sorry to a Pisces Man?
Pisces men are not made of glass even if they sometimes seem like they are. The best thing you can do when you’ve “messed up” in his mind is apologize and tell him you didn’t mean it or what you actually meant by it.
Once you explain and apologize, he’ll probably want a little space and time so he can sulk a little, think it over, and decide if he can forgive it and move on or if this one flaw has made him want to call it quits.
I wish I could give you a guarantee, but Pisces men can be rather unpredictable when it comes to their feelings. You never really know what they will be hurt or offended by.
However, when you love a Pisces man, you tend to care if his feelings are hurt, so you’re willing to do what you can to cheer him up. That being said, apologizing and explaining should help.
How Does A Pisces Man Apologize?
A Pisces man apologizes by expressing empathy, remorse, and a sincere desire to make things right. He may also use creative or romantic gestures to show his apology and make it up to the person they hurt.
He will do everything he can to show you how much he loves you.
Words are good, but taking action to prove to you how he feels will allow you to actually FEEL it. He will take care of you, be affectionate, and do whatever he can to show you that he cares.
How To Get A Pisces Man To Forgive You?
You can try doing things for him that will make him feel cared for and will let him see how wonderful you truly are. Send him a card with a sentimental feel to it but not too emotional though.
It can be something about how much you value and enjoy having him in your life, etc. You can also make a card yourself if you’re artistically inclined. You can also try writing him a song or anything that appeals to his artistic side.
Communication is very important, as is staying calm. You cannot go at him with anger or frustration, or he will shut down and not listen. Even worse, he might say some hurtful things then block and you out of his life.
You have to do this diplomatically and carefully. Pisces is sensitive, so you’ve got to appeal to that by being calm, collected, and intellectual. He’s more apt to listen to you when you’re not emotionally unsettled.
Do Pisces Men Forgive Easily?
Depending on the severity of what happened, generally speaking, Pisces men tend not to hold grudges and easily forgive.
The first thing you really need to do is figure out how ticked off he really is. To do this, you will be able to tell from his actions. If a Pisces man ignores you or will not speak to you at all, that means he is pretty upset.
If he talks to you but sounds a bit standoffish, he’s mad but not something he cannot overcome. So which one of these is he displaying? Pisces is quite open about how they feel most of the time.
In fact, your consideration alone will make him understand that you care about him and that will make him start to feel better without doing too much else. Being cared for is a huge thing for the Pisces man.
He may not tell you, but he will secretly want you to work as hard as you can to be a better person and a better partner. He will want you to change the actions that led you to do whatever it is that you did.
How To Comfort A Pisces Man — 5 Ways To Cheer Him Up
Take him out for a few laughs. If you know his sense of humor, you should easily be able to find something that will appeal to him and pick him up. Comedy is fantastic medicine for just about anyone who isn’t feeling quite right.
Perhaps you can try taking him to a comedy club or something similar. If there is a comedian in town, grab some tickets! He’ll be so grateful that you’re so considerate and thinking of him.
Make a reservation at his favorite restaurant. Taking him to his favorite restaurant or ordering some in will help him feel better. Surprise him with something fun and/or tasty. The act of you showing your care for him will lift his spirits.
Inviting him to hang out with friends. This may help raise his mood as well. Something involving water would be ideal, such as going out on a boat, surfing, camping by a lake, or anything else that allows his soul to absorb the water’s energy.
Be affectionate with him. He may not take well to trying to bed him down but he will take the hugs, kisses and tenderness you can provide him with. These are the types of things that make him feel “at home” with you.
Stability is something that Pisces craves and strives to build. Help him with this by doing your part and being the partner he needs. Pisces man needs a strong woman who knows how to lift her man up when he needs her.
Take him camping or hiking. Getting him outside and with nature will make him perk up. Even better is if you make plans to have some sexy time while you’re out there. Just try to keep momentum going once you are done so that he still feels he can open up and rely on you to be the shoulder he needs.
FAQ On Pisces Man’s Hurt Feelings
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Pisces man and how he manages his hurt feelings?
Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Pisces man.
Does Pisces Man Ignore You When Being Hurt?
The Pisces man is all about safety and security and therefore he needs to feel like he’s snug as a bug in a rug all the time. Any trace of turbulence will have him retreating into himself, and who knows when you’ll see him next if that happens.
Do Pisces Hide Their Feelings?
Ultimately yes! Pisces men are known for their emotional and sensitive nature, but also for their privacy and introspectiveness. They may hide their feelings in order to protect themselves or avoid conflicts. However, Pisces men may also open up and express their emotions if they feel safe and secure in the relationship.
How To Make A Pisces Man Regret Hurting You?
Pisces man cherishes memories you have made together, and it’s the one single thing that will make him most long for you and your relationship, and fill him with regret.
Reminding him of these memories, whether you’re out for coffee, chatting on instant messaging, over the phone, or posting a memory on social media, is a sure-fire way to have him feeling strong and intense emotions over the past!
How To Make Up With A Pisces Man — Final Thoughts
Ladies, I know that you’re naturally loving because you’re here trying to learn how to understand a Pisces man.
That is exactly why I am so glad that you’ve found your way here to my blog. This is where you and I can learn more about ourselves and our partners in order to better support them and us.
Pisces guys are usually some variant of an empath, and as such, they likely know the emotion that you’re hiding even if you feel that you’re doing it really well. They need a partner who won’t rush him, who listens without judgment, and one who will not hurt him but will make him happy and confident.
Read next: Clear Signs A Pisces Man Is Playing You
Why Most Dating Advice Can Be Dangerous With A Pisces Man…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Pisces man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Pisces.
You see, Pisces men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Pisces, it can backfire.
He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.
He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Pisces is NOT like other men… at ALL.