A Pisces man lives through his emotional responses, so that’s the side to appeal to. Here’s the complete guide to a Pisces man in bed.
Sensitive, sensual, and full of feeling — that’s a Pisces man in bed. He’s pretty incredible both inside and outside the bedroom, and it’s easy to fall for someone so intuitive and emotionally intelligent. Curious what to expect? Keep reading for everything you need to know.
Pisces Man Sextrology In A Nutshell — What’s He Like In Bed?
The Pisces man is a bit of an enigma in the bedroom, slipping into many different roles. He may seem shy and reserved at first, but the more time you spend together, the more you’ll discover his moves are quietly magical. Pisces men view intimacy as a spiritual experience — a way to truly connect — so they’re rarely interested without that special bond; for a Pisces man, sex needs meaning. In short, he’s:
- Shy and reserved at first, but skilled once he opens up
- Creative and imaginative
- Drawn to real intimacy over casual encounters
- Intuitive, sensing exactly what you need
- Longing for an emotional connection with his partner
To impress a Pisces man, match his emotional depth and sensuality — he’s a well of deep water and needs to feel his feelings reciprocated.
How To Turn On A Pisces Man — 5 Ways To Drive Him Crazy
1. Be intuitive and anticipate his needs. He loves a partner who senses what he wants without him having to ask — it confirms the deep, almost psychic bond that’s so important to him. (Here’s more on what a Pisces man likes and dislikes in a woman.)
2. Let yourself enjoy the moment. Your pleasure genuinely matters to him, and he’s most turned on by a woman who can relax and simply receive. Don’t overthink it — let him give you his full attention and let things flow.
3. Be open to his imagination. A Pisces man is wonderfully creative and loves to explore, so a partner happy to share that adventurous spirit drives him wild. Ask what he’d love and meet him there, and he’ll come back to you again and again. (For more playful ideas, my 27 Dirty Phrases for a Pisces Man will help.)
4. Appeal to his sensitivity. He may not be as secure in intimacy as he lets on, so build him up — don’t just compliment, be specific about the things he does that you love, and take care not to criticize, because he’s more easily hurt than you’d think. (Related: Why Is My Pisces Man Hot And Cold?)
5. Dress to impress. Pisces men dislike stiff formality, but they love romance, so play up your most feminine, romantic side with elegant lingerie — tantalizing yet graceful. You don’t have to reveal everything at once; he adores using his imagination. His favorite colors are purple and deep shades of blue.
What A Pisces Man Likes In Bed
The Pisces man is emotionally driven and wants a deep connection. While he’s not opposed to casual flings, he truly prefers a partner to share his life with — he’s searching for his soulmate, and once he believes he’s found her, he treats her like the most wonderful woman alive. He puts her on a pedestal and makes sure she’s well pleased, devoting himself to her satisfaction as if he were a king at his queen’s side. As a mutable water sign, he’s deeply attuned to the world and to his partner — though she’ll need to be in tune with him too. He’s a natural at romance and seduction, and once you’re intimate you’ll find him quite free and open, with no real hang-ups. His deepest desire is simply to fulfill his partner’s desires, in and out of bed.
3 Positions That Bring A Pisces Man Closer
The Lotus. Sitting face to face, intertwined, lets him gaze into your eyes and whisper romantic things — ideal for the deep, intimate closeness he craves.
Spooning. Affectionate and romantic, with the whole length of your bodies touching — lovely for a shyer Pisces who may prefer not to be face to face at first.
Missionary. A tried-and-true favorite, letting him meet your eyes and feel a strong sense of connection (and a gentle sense of control, without being overtly dominant).
What Does A Pisces Man Find Physically Attractive?
Like most men, Pisces have their physical types — but they’re far more interested in a woman’s heart than her looks. One of the zodiac’s most thoughtful lovers, he silently observes and patiently learns his partner’s needs. Pisces men are most attracted to women who are compassionate and give as much as they receive; in return for her tender love, he becomes utterly devoted. He cherishes a kind, selfless partner who pampers him — candlelit dinners, small thoughtful gestures, a back rub before bed — and feels safe knowing she nurtures him. (Discover more on the Pisces man’s favorite body parts.)
Are Pisces Men Good In Bed? Do They Have A High Sex Drive?
Pisces men are wonderful lovers — intuitive souls who sense exactly what a woman needs and bring real emotional intimacy and intensity. They do have high drives, but they need that spiritual and emotional component to truly want to be intimate; without it, it feels meaningless to them.
FAQs About Pisces Men In Bed
How important is sex for a Pisces man?
Very. One of the most generous lovers in the zodiac, he takes the initiative and works to meet his partner’s desires — but he also wants to feel appreciated, and can be hurt if he gets no warmth or feedback in return, or feels consistently turned away. For him this is both a spiritual and physical connection, so mutual presence and appreciation matter; when he feels truly met, he shows more passion than you’ve ever seen.
Are Pisces men into casual relationships?
He seeks his soulmate, yet he’s also fine with casual encounters and won’t necessarily turn down a friends-with-benefits situation. It can be confusing to read which he wants. Not all Pisces men stray, but some are genuinely open — even to an open relationship if a partner wants one — valuing freedom and variety. A Pisces who wants that does best with an equally open partner; one who needs strict loyalty may find this type harder to fully trust.
Is sleeping with a Pisces man too soon a worry?
It depends on what you’d established beforehand — friends, dating, something serious — and on being clear about your expectations. He’ll happily be intimate with a woman he feels a connection with, but that doesn’t automatically mean he wants a relationship; sometimes he’s simply living in the moment. If a real bond formed and he keeps reaching out to spend time with you, it can deepen beautifully from there.
What are the best matches for a Pisces man?
His top three are a Pisces woman, a Scorpio woman, and a Capricorn woman.
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Wishing you love and luck,
Your sister and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
P.S. Not all men are turned on by the same things — see exactly what turns your Pisces man on based on his specific astrology. Use a Gemini approach on a Pisces and he could get up and leave instead of getting hot and bothered, so don’t make that mistake. See the specific things your man craves here now.
I met an amazing Pisces but we have rushed and argued a couple of times in 2 months already. Spent a lot of time together and def. had a connection. How do I let him know we are worth fighting for even though I broke it off because I got upset with his aggression and selfishness.
Hi Beryl!
Yes rushing can bring about some issues. You can still work through it provided you use communication effectively. You can tell him directly that you want to fight for your love and you want to be with him forever. Be romantic and apologetic for having been afraid and given up. Tell him you won’t do that again. If you would like more information about Pisces man, check out my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
Hi,
This pisces man lives next to my house who is a divorcee and i am single and never married. He seems to be interested in me. Its been 3 months since we started talking to each other. He keeps really busy however he calls me whenever he gets time, most of times while he is driving back home. Messages me mostly during nights. He is mostly lost and wont call or message me or revert back to me for several days. Doesn’t talk on weekends too due to the renovation at his place which keeps him busy but he does Messages me during night and talks about having virtual sex. He simply wants sex with me without commitment. He said he needs some time. I am really interested in this guy and would like to get married and not ready to just have casual sex which will potentially cause me a damage if he won’t get married to me. Please help me understand what’s there in his mind
Hi Anonymous!
Ok if you’re not ready to have sex then the Sextrology thing may not be the article you want to look at sweetheart. It sounds like it’s too early on for him to want to fully engage in the relationship. He may have some past issues holding him back and of course because he’s busy, he’s lacking energy or drive to be in contact more. If you really like him then you need to be very patient. After 3 months, marriage shouldn’t yet be a thought. He’s probably not thinking that in the slightest yet. You have to give it time to flourish and for him to get into a place in his head where he is fully ready to commit 100%. I wish you all the very best in love and in life!
I just wanted to say I have a amazing Pisces man in my life who I guess is not the normal type. He is a complete Dominant in the Bedroom. A true Alfa Male. Nothing shy or reserved about him. And it is so amazing to me because I am a good Submissive. It seems we were made for each other. And you are completely right about him being able to intuitively read my needs and give me exactly what I want and need. He loves to push me and I worship him for it. I have never had better sex in my life. He can’t seem to be able to keep his hands off of me when we are together. Our connection is so strong and I’m absolutely in love with him. I love your blog. I have been reading and getting your emails for months now. Thank you for your insights.