So, you’ve gotten involved with a Pisces man, but something doesn’t feel right. Perhaps you’re getting a sneaking suspicion that he is being deceitful, even though everything might seem fine on the surface? This article explains the telltale signs a Pisces man is playing you.
Your head may be spinning with confusion because you have a feeling that the Pisces man you are dating is just messing you around. You just want answers to understand him better and to either keep going or to let him go.
There are definitely some signs a Pisces man is playing you and tests that he puts his partner through. This is probably what is going on with him right now. Don’t worry! You are way too smart to fall victim to this and I am here to help you out – beat him at his own game!
Let us unpack all the signs and see if a Pisces man is playing you and leading you on. It is better to know these things than to be left out in the dark. Knowledge is power, and there is a lot you can do with this information.
You need to figure out what he is up to and I can definitely help you out! Here are some things you can look for in order to determine what may be going on. Make sure you read all the way until the end.
First Things First, Are Pisces Men Players?
A Pisces man isn’t your obvious, go-to player type. He does believe in true love and finding his soulmate, and he wants to find her badly. This, however, means that your Pisces man has no trouble dating around so that he can find his perfect match.
The good thing about a Pisces man is that when he commits, he really commits. But until the two of you have the conversation about taking things to the next step, he feels like he is allowed to keep his options open.
You may see this as him being a player, but remember, if the two of you haven’t spoken about being exclusive, then it doesn’t really count. I wouldn’t say a Pisces man is a player!
Watch for everything I’ve mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if he’s talking himself up for something he won’t ever deliver.
You may also want to read: Why Are Pisces Men So Confusing And Not Straight Up About Their Feelings?
9 Warning Signs A Pisces Man Is Playing You
If your Pisces man is calling you only when he needs you, that is a sign he is not setting the stage to be in a serious relationship. Your Pisces man is simply playing you.
He might keep the door open for intimacy if you are sexually involved, but you should not expect a romance with this guy. Furthermore, if he is canceling his plans, and is not interested in what is going on in your life, this is a sign he is not into you.
1. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers
If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you ask him what he’s been up to, he is either feeling he doesn’t have to answer to you or he knows he’s being dishonest.
Pisces men can tell white lies and omit information like no one’s business. They do this especially when they’re seeing someone that they’re not that serious about.
If he tells you he went to hang out with a friend but leaves out certain aspects of where he was going, then he may have been meeting a female friend who is actually a bit more than a friend.
Do you see how this works? “I went to see my friend, and we hung out playing video games,” but what he isn’t saying is: “I went to hang out with my female friend, and we started with video games but ended up having sex.”
I’m not saying all Pisces men are liars and cheaters. Though, if he’s not so serious about you, he feels he doesn’t have to answer you. Therefore, he’ll omit the truth of the situation so as not to rock the boat.
2. He Is Acting Flaky
When a Pisces man is using you, he’ll flake out quite often. If he has plans with you and calls you to tell you he cannot make it or wants to change the dates, he’s up to something. This is a surefire sign a Pisces man is playing you.
Sometimes he may legitimately have something come up and needs to change but when you see he’s doing it often, you know something is going on and it’s time to perhaps put your foot down.
Ask him why he keeps flaking out on you. He’ll probably try to give you a story but again, watch his behavior as he talks. You’ll be able to tell if he’s being honest or is giving you total crap.
3. He Is Emotionally Cold
As far as the emotional side of things is concerned, a Pisces can take a very long time to open up to another person. At the very least, if he is trying to get to know a woman, he will at the very least discuss his own desires and life goals with her as he gets to know her.
There is a possibility that a Pisces man who you are hanging out with and who you thought you were getting closer to might be using you if he isn’t telling you anything about him. He doesn’t want to be intimate with you.
When he is not interested, Pisces men can be really cold and cut off from you. One night stands or flings are usually not encouraged by Pisces men. It should be noted, however, that every rule has an exception.
4. He Is Inconsistent
If your Pisces guy isn’t sticking to one flow, there may be a problem. Telling you how much he cares one day and then being really cold to you the next could indicate that something is amiss.
Does he speak one way and then act another? Watch his actions. They often speak far louder than his words ever can. Telling you he loves you and then giving you the cold shoulder is showing you his intent.
His intention is NOT true if he’s being cold or hurtful toward you after telling you how much he cares for you. Words can only take you so far and his actions could very much be showing you that he’s only playing with you to get what he wants.
5. He Doesn’t Open Up To You
A very important part of his life is his dreams and goals for the future. Only people who he thinks will be in his life for a very long time, if not forever, will be able to hear what he has to say about them.
He talks about it with family and VERY close friends but to a woman he’s talking to, he’s quiet, especially if she seems insignificant to him.
You should know that if he does not open up to you about anything, especially about an important aspect of his life, then he probably isn’t interested in you at all. In this case, your Pisces man just wants to hook up with you.
Here’s how to get a Pisces man to open up to you and share his true feelings.
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6. He’ll Say Anything To Get You In Bed
While he’s trying to get you into bed, he will act as though you’re the hottest woman alive. Typical for a Pisces man womanizer. Afterward, he will go back to being a jerk who could care less what you think or feel. If that is the vibe you are getting, drop him like it’s hot and move on with your life.
When a Pisces man is using you, you’ll know by how much anxiety you feel in your gut. You won’t feel safe and protected by him. Your feelings will typically be everywhere and it can be difficult for your emotions to handle this.
When he says one thing and does another, it is going to break your heart because deep down you will know that he is only kind to you for short periods because he wants to sleep with you.
7. He Doesn’t Put Any Effort Into The Relationship
Trust me, when a Pisces man wants to be with you and is in love with you, he’ll put lots of effort in. You will be his queen and you’ll just know that you can trust him and rely on him. You’ll never have to wonder.
Pisces man going ice cold is the biggest indicator he is done or he’s only interested in you when he feels like it. That may mean seeing you once a week or once every other week. You may be asking yourself: is your Pisces man just using you? It is likely!
8. He Only Contacts You Late At Night
An easy way to determine a Pisces man’s interest is to pay attention to when he reaches out and what his intention is each time. Do you only hear from him late at night? If he is only reaching out late at night for sexual purposes or to hook up, then it’s likely that your Pisces man is using you for sex.
Do you feel like he always has an explanation ready when you invite him to spend time with you? Maybe he says he’s busy at work or that he has too much on his plate right now. Everyone has busy days, but if he’s constantly “too busy,” it means you’re not a priority for him.
9. He Is Settling
A Pisces man will always want the best of the best. He wants to know that he is the winner in everything he does in his life and this especially includes his relationships.
The only thing is, that he might be searching for the perfect one, and just never seems to meet her, and this is when he’ll acquiesce and just settle for whoever comes next.
His intentions won’t be totally pure or honest, and this is why when a Pisces man settles, he’s not being truthful. This is when a Pisces man is using you, despite him not maybe being aware of it.
However, he sometimes is fearful he won’t find the right person and hangs onto someone who isn’t the right one just to have someone there when he wants her. It’s not right but sometimes he will do this.
Again, watch all his behaviors and see if they are in line with him being with you or if they’re more in line with you being an option or second choice. If you feel that way, leave him.
Pisces Man Playing Games — Why Do Pisces Men Play Mind Games?
Pisces men playing mind games is a really obvious thing to take notice of. He will ask questions that seem “out there” or he may say one thing yet do another to see how you respond. This is all just a test to see how far he can push things with you, and he gets a rise out of how you respond.
Why are they doing this? Usually, it is the way they use to test their partner’s feelings to see how far they can push bound Pisces. To some Pisces men, playing mind games is a form of defense mechanism. They simply prevent themselves from getting hurt by playing hard to get or creating emotional distance as a fear of rejection.
Remember that Pisces men can be incredibly manipulative. They know how to play with people’s heartstrings and this gives your Pisces man a lot of power because he knows how to control people based on their emotions.
It’s important you know all his maneuvers to find out if the Pisces man is playing games.
Have you ever wondered: ‘Is my Pisces man leading me on’? If you’ve been around your Pisces man enough, you know he has a way with words that can convince anyone of anything. This includes making you think he’s telling you the truth when he’s actually being deceptive. This is one of the signs that your Pisces man is playing you and leading you on.
How To Beat A Pisces At His Own Game?
Start looking for the things that give him away. Use the Scorpio tactic of looking him in the eye. If he isn’t being honest, he won’t be able to keep his gaze on your eyes, he’ll look away and fumble his words.
Body movement is a good indicator also. If he shifts uncomfortably or becomes a little jittery then you know he’s probably not being forthcoming or truthful in whatever it is that he’s telling you.
He’s so good at telling lies or bending the truth that he’s become very comfortable with himself. However, there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and he’s no different and that is body language!
Eye and body shifts, while he’s telling you what he is doing or what he’s going to do, will reveal to you if he’s being honest or if he’s playing you. While he is an expert at convincing people of anything, he is flawed.
Now that you know, start asking him questions and see how he physically responds. You’ll get right to the truth and he won’t be able to hide as easily. Naturally, he’s likely to deny it if you call him out so don’t be surprised if he does.
Are Pisces Men Liars?
Pisces men can be truly wonderful partners, but unfortunately, there is a side to them that is so manipulative. Pisces men can be liars, but it is a case-by-case scenario. It all just depends on the man you are dealing with.
Pisces men are really good at reading people, and they can quickly figure out what drives people. This makes them crafty liars because they intuitively know what you would believe and what you wouldn’t believe.
These guys are super sensitive to other people’s emotions, but this also gives them a great amount of power because they know how to push people’s buttons. This is what makes Pisces men such good liars.
How Does A Pisces Man Test You?
He pretends not to care about the plans you make because he is trying to push you away because he is so afraid of getting hurt. I guess he doesn’t realize that he is only hurting himself by behaving this way.
But he might not be doing this intentionally at all! Pisces men are notoriously unorganized, and his head might just be in the clouds. This is still pretty uncool because it seems like he isn’t considering your time which is a little disrespectful.
He will take everything out on you if you give him the chance. This is a super cowardly thing to do, but I guess it has been a very long time since he has been able to get away with this kind of behavior.
If he acts super sensitive and is playing the victim card just realize that he is trying to test his boundaries with you. He wants to see how far he can push things with you and how much he can get away with.
Pisces man can be really, really sensitive. This side of him might not even be that conscious within him, but there seem to be some days where whatever you seem to do or say he takes so much offense to.
This is again one of the tactics your Pisces man uses to test you. He wants to see if you are willing to change the way you behave to make him happy. However, he needs to learn that his sensitivity and emotions are his own responsibility and he needs to figure out how to cope with these feelings productively.
How To Know When A Pisces Man Is Done With You?
When he’s done, he will likely become quiet. One of the signs, when a Pisces man is done with you, is that he will go silent, won’t return your calls or texts, and basically, you won’t be able to get a hold of him.
I suspect that the term “ghosting” was invented by a woman who was dating a Pisces man… That’s what they do, one minute everything is amazing, and the next thing you haven’t heard from your Pisces man in ages!
He sees no value in reaching out and trying to talk anything through. It will seem as though he never existed except your heart will feel the sadness. When he’s done, he’s done and you won’t hear from him again.
Then again if he’s lonely enough, he may play with you a bit to make himself feel good again. When a Pisces man is done with you, you will most definitely know. He will be pretty obvious about it.
There isn’t much you can do about this because once he has made up his mind, he has definitely made up his mind. Some women may resort to texting him repeatedly and chasing him down, but this will only scare your Pisces man off even more.
The best thing you can do is just to step away from him and keep your self-respect intact. There is a small chance that he may be really surprised that you aren’t chasing him, that he may come circling back to you, but don’t hold your breath in for this.
Your Pisces Man Will Be Yours In 30 Days (Or Walk Away)…
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