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Is Your Pisces Man Using You? Signs to Look for If He’s Playing You

So you’ve gotten involved with a Pisces man but something doesn’t feel right. You aren’t sure what it is but you wonder if he’s playing you or if there is something else you need to know about.

You need to figure out what he is up to and I can definitely help you out! Here are some things you can look for in order to determine what may be going on. Make sure you read all the way until the end.

Signs a Pisces Man Is Playing You

Believe it or not there are actually signature things that a Pisces man will do or say that will show you what is going on with him. You simply have to learn what they are and what you can do about it.

How does a Pisces man test you? Again, this is something you have to learn so that you aren’t a victim to his games. This is how you will for sure find out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you.

Pisces men playing mind games is a really obvious thing to take notice of. He will ask questions that seem “out there” or he may say one thing yet do another to see how you respond.

It’s important you know all his maneuvers to find out if the Pisces man playing games is something that is happening to you in your life. There is more. Keep reading to find out all the signs a Pisces man is playing you.

Pisces Man With Illusive Answers

If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you’ve asked him what he’s been up to; he is either feeling he doesn’t have to answer to you or he knows he’s being dishonest.

Pisces men have the ability to tell white lies and omit information like no one’s business. They especially do this when they’re seeing someone that they’re not that serious about.

If he tells you he went to hang out with a friend but leaves out certain aspects of what he was going; he may have been meeting a female friend who is actually a bit more than a friend.

Do you see how this works? “I went to see my friend and we hung out playing video games” but what he isn’t saying is “I went to hang out with my female friend and we started with video games but ended up having sex”.

I’m not saying all Pisces men are liars and cheaters. What I am saying though is that if he’s not that serious about you; he feels he doesn’t have to answer to you therefore he’ll omit the truth of the situation as to not rock the boat.

Why do that if he isn’t into you? That’s the real question that I’m not sure I have the answer for. If he’s still “playing” with you then he may not yet be ready to give that up while he’s playing with others.

He should just let you go if that’s what his intention is but Pisces is always looking for his true soul mate and until he finds her; he’ll keep looking elsewhere in order to make sure he’s not missing anything.

Very Convincing Pisces Man Playing Games

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If you’ve been around your Pisces man enough; you know he has a way with words that can convince anyone of anything. This includes making you think he’s telling you the truth when he’s actually being deceptive.

Start looking for the things that give him away. Use the Scorpio tactic of looking him in the eye. If he isn’t being honest; he won’t be able to keep his gaze on your eyes; he’ll look away.

Body movement is a good indicator also. If he shifts uncomfortably then you know he’s probably not being forthcoming or truthful in whatever it is that he’s telling you.

He’s so good at telling lies or bending the truth that he’s become very comfortable with himself. However; there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and he’s no different.

Eye and body shifts while he’s telling you what he was doing or what he’s going to do will reveal to you if he’s being honest or if he’s playing you. While he is an expert at convincing people of anything; he is flawed.

Now that you know; start asking him questions and see how he physically responds. You’ll get right to the truth and he won’t be able to hide as easily. Naturally he’s likely to deny it if you call him out so don’t be surprised if he does.

Flaky Behavior With Pisces Man

When a Pisces man isn’t committed and is using you; he’ll flake out quite often. If he has plans with you and calls you to tell you he cannot make it or wants to change the dates; he’s up to something.

Sometimes he may legitimately have something come up and needs to change but when you see he’s doing it often; you know something is going on and it’s time to perhaps put your foot down.

Then again he could be testing you to see how you respond. How does a Pisces man test you? I’ve got some information you need so keep reading!

Ask him why he keeps flaking out on you. He’ll probably try to give you a story but again; watch his behavior as he talks. You’ll be able to tell if he’s being honest or is giving you total crap.

A flaky man is a man that isn’t invested. He could be seeing other people and breaking plans with you to go see them. If not then he’s being selfish and taking time to himself after he promised it to you.

Time to himself is important but he should never cancel plans in order to do this. He should take the time he needs or wants on days he hasn’t already promised to get together with you.

Constant pulling out on plans is something that indicates that he’s not serious about you and you may want to consider moving on to find someone who won’t flak out on you.

When Pisces Man Playing Mind Games Happens

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Pisces is an expert game player. So how to know if a Pisces man is playing you? He knows all the right things to say to get into your life or into your pants. Be very careful. All his other actions need to line up with what he says otherwise you have no reason to believe him.

When a Pisces man is in love; he’ll want to be with you as often as possible. If you’ve met a Pisces man who says all the right things but doesn’t put the action behind it; you’ve got yourself a player who doesn’t care about your feelings.

Look at the overall picture and start piecing together those red flags. When you do; you’ll realize that though he’s a smooth talker; he’s fallible and you can calculate if Pisces man playing mind games is happening or not.

When A Pisces Man Is Done With You

When he’s done, he will likely become quiet. One of the signs when a Pisces man is done with you is that he will go silent, won’t return your calls or texts, and basically you won’t be able to get a hold of him.

He sees no value in reaching out and trying to talk anything through. It will seem as though he never existed except your heart will feel the sadness. When he’s done, he’s done and you won’t hear from him again.

Maybe months or years down the road you’ll bump into him or send a random text and he may reply but trust that unless he’s over everything, he likely won’t start anything up with you again.

Then again if he’s lonely enough, he may play with you a bit to make himself feel good again. Are Pisces men players? Take a look at my next section to find out more. It may be really eye opening.

When a Pisces man is done with you, you will most definitely know. He will be pretty obvious about it.

Read next: 5 Turn-Offs That Make a Good Pisces Man Leave a Great Woman

Final Thoughts… Are Pisces Men Players?

Watch for everything I’ve mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if he’s talking himself up for something he won’t ever deliver.

Most Pisces men are looking for their one and only so they don’t do a whole lot of playing. However; some of them are out there and are looking to have “fun” until they find the one.

When they are in the immature mode or just not ready to commit, they may play just to have fun and enjoy themselves not thinking of the consequences that may befall you.

Are Pisces men players? Not typically but they can be when they are not ready to commit. Him talking to you making promises he doesn’t intend to keep is one of the signs a Pisces man is playing you.

Take note and understand. This will definitely aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. You should know by what you’ve read here so far how does a Pisces man test you.

It’s pretty clear when he’s not sure what he wants. It’s this type of thing that can cause Pisces man playing mind games. Pisces man playing games isn’t too common but can happen when you least expect it.

Get to know your Pisces guy before you commit yourself to him. Make sure he’s not just out to play you and hurt you. You cannot do this over night. Watch him, listen to him, and watch for the signs a Pisces man is playing you. You’ll figure it out fairly quickly.

When a Pisces man is done with you, there is no room for games. He will just disappear. It’s pretty shocking but he can and will do this.

If you’re ready to understand more about is your Pisces man using you click here to learn more about Pisces Man Secrets.

By the way, did you know that older still sexy rock start Jon Bon Jovi is a Pisces? It makes sense when you listen to any of his lyrics. He’s a lover and a dreamer.

Did you get played by a Pisces man? Tell me how he did it, I’d love to know!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



16 thoughts on “Is Your Pisces Man Using You? Signs to Look for If He’s Playing You

  1. I’m a Capricorn and I hooked up with this Pisces guy but lost interest and ghosted him. He was after me for almost a year before I gave him a second chance. I wasn’t expecting to like him this time. Things went really up and down but it was because I was high and I’m terrified of talking about my feelings, and the fact he’s not a good texter made me anxious. He ghosted me for a couple days came back and apologized saying he needed space because it irritated him how I’d freak out, but I reminded him I was high. It got ridiculous during that convo, he only texted me once a day…I finally said something and he never responded.
    I get being busy at work but I know damn well you can throw a text. I’m torn between pride and feelings. My experience is that guys who want you text but I’m wondering if all the mood swings finally fucked it up. I needed to say something about the texting though, I get crazy with over thinking.
    Should I text him again? It’s been 3 days. I feel like it’s time to walk away permanently, it looks like he got what he wanted b and is done but then again Pisces are different

    1. Hi Michelle!

      I would go ahead and text him, yes. The emotional roller coaster needs to slow down. As a Capricorn, you should be able to provide stability and a steady ground from with to work on. Try not to criticize him or say things in a way that might sound like it. Pisces are sensitive men and need a woman to be soft with him. Not to let him get away with stuff but being able to talk to him in a soft way that won’t make him feel as though he’s an awful person. I hope this helps!

  2. I think there is a good quantity of Pisces men who can’t be trusted and relied upon. Too flakey and wishy-washy for most women. Pisces women, on the other hand, are more trustworthy in general. My experience with some Pisces men is that they have an idealized version of their past ex, and they keep playing that story in their heads on repeat, when in reality, that ex, or their past experience with her, wasn’t as great as they have made it up in their mind. However, since they are ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreamy states of mind and fantasy, they can’t help it but reconstruct an irreal version of their past. It is difficult for us people of other signs, Scorpio in my case, to understand how their mind thinks like that, but they do, and all we can do is to observe from afar the strangeness of this mindset. Being a Scorpio, things are easier and faster to determine, either I like the guy or I don’t, I use logic to analyze myself in the case I start idealizing some past relationship and can see the truth for what it is. An ex is an ex, and there is not time to dwell on the past. Another thing I’ve observed from them is that, the less emotionally invested you are in them, the more they care. Some of them are even Masochistic people: the worse you treat them, the more they care. Incredible…

    1. Hi Ivania!

      Pisces men want lots of attention and adoration from the person they consider to be their partner. They can seem rather needy and clingy to some. However with some women, they’re a dream come true as a male partner. It really can go either way depending on the person he decides to have a relationship with really. Yes Pisces men and women are different mainly due to hormonal differences. Women take a different stance with many things that don’t go along with their male counterpart Pisces would agree with. They are a little more grounded than the male Pisces because they are more in tune with Mother Earth. Thank you for chiming in Ivania!

  3. As a Libra, i feel so confused with this sign. I wish i had known it better. Had 2 experiences with Pisces men and both were liars. I also hate their MIA act even over the weekend. The last pisces that i dated seemed too busy for me everyday even for a single text. I couldnt contact him on the weekends too and being busy was always be his reason. I tried to understand but he kept doing it for 2 months. I just felt that something was just not right because if you care about someone, you shouldnt be too busy for them. One text caused less than one minute. How difficult is that 🙁 I decided to breakup with him and now i keep wondering what i did do wrong

    1. Hi libra!

      I don’t think you did anything wrong. I think he wasn’t that into you. If he was, he would have moved mountains to spend time with you. That’s the absolute truth. He had his head in other places and breaking up is probably the best thing for you to do with him. I’m sorry honey but when a Pisces man really wants to be with someone, he will do whatever he has to to make it happen. If you need more help, please check out my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  4. Hi,Anna my name is Lesley,and I met this guy on plenty of fish a dating site,he had me to go to a site call hangout, he will text me, it may take 2 or 3 minutes for him to return a text then he may take 2 to 3hrs b4 he responds he is a project developer and he said he has 5 company that he take care of but I am a in hm aide so he ask me what I did for a living but I told him that it was on my profile and I ask him did he read it he said yes then I responded to him that he mad me think that I didn’t meet his criteria and he made me feel that he was not interested he responded bk and said I am interested but we were texting and he stay gone for about an hour and some minutes so I text him and ask are u still there he said yes I was taking a shower I will get bk you when I get out I told him it is no way you can text me while you are showering and if u needed to get off the phone the only thing I had to do was say so he have responded bk but he will probably text in the morning maybe but we have never met one another we are only texting what do u think and how can I determine if he is trying to take my kindness for my weakness he sent me pictures of him and everything what are some questions I can ask him to see if he is real or fake? Thanks Again Anna been waiting to hear from you soon.

    1. Hi Lesley Carter!

      It’s absolutely necessary to see him on camera or in person because there are definitely a whole lot of fakes on P.O.F. It’s called by many folks as a “meat market” where people can pick up other people to “hook up” but most of them are not looking for anything serious. It’s hard to know which is which without a bit of time and research. I’d ask him flat out to see you on vid or you’re going to going to any further. If you need more help, please check out my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  5. I’m a May Taurus and the person that was trying to play me was a March Pisces. He would talk to me everyday even do cute little things like want to hold my hand, always give me a hug, and even compliment me but it would always seem like he was trying to play me. He almost did but I didn’t let that happen so I started to distance myself away from him. He found somebody else played her but now he’s back into my life. We have classes together and he’s doing the same things to get my attention. He even asked if me and this boy was dating one time only because me and the boy use to talk everyday and play around in class. I could tell he was jealous because me and him would never play like that he didn’t get to know my real personality. what do I do? I think he’s just trying to play me still that’s why I won’t get attached but he calls me bae in text messages like he wants me to start giving him attention again. Help please😭

    1. Hi Jewel!

      You have to ask him the hard questions honey. Ask him if you let him back in if he will be with you only. Tell him you want exclusivity or nothing at all. He has to choose so you can. I would suggest you learn more about Pisces men. Try reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  6. im a leo woman and this guy has been trying to meet up with me for over half a year now. i blocked him for two weeks because he was being such an ass but then missed him so i came back. the same night we hooked up but he was annoyed because i didn’t give him head?? honestly i saw this coming but at the same time he was asking me a lot of questions about me and was staring into my soul. i wish i didn’t go back because i want him to text me again and i wasn’t even into him from the start. he’s an athlete as well. i think my confidence intimated him because i have a very sarcastic way of talking and i think it triggered him idk

    1. Hi ellese!

      Sounds like he’s just after sex if he made a big deal out of no oral. Sorry but that’s a dead giveaway about his intentions with you. Not all Pisces men are like this especially when they are ready to be with someone in a relationship. I don’t think he’s ready to do that. Read up more on Pisces guys in my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  7. My Pisces man and I have been seeing each other for 4-5 months now. We got into it twice and both times we broke up. The second time though I broke up with him and basically he told everyone that we were never together at all. It hurt my feelings as an Aries woman but we talked and decided to move on from it. We are now “best friends” according to him and he still takes me on dates and stays over sometimes. He helps me with my two kids and helps me with chores around the house and will even tell me to take a break so he can cook and clean and stuff. He won’t commit but has talked to me about marriage and have another baby. He also tells me he loves me a lot. It’s just so confusing why he won’t commit but acts as if he’s committed?

    1. Hi Brittany!

      He doesn’t want the titled because it scares him so he keeps it “as is” but hey if he’s playing the role then just keep going with it. Why break it all up by telling him he needs to give it a title. If he’s not seeing anyone else and treating you as he does then hang onto it. Many couples are “best friends”. Roll with it Brittany! I think that in time he’ll finally give in and give it the title you want. Otherwise just enjoy him. He sounds like a great guy.

  8. So this Pisces guy was really sweet at first we talked for like 3 months he called and text me on a regular but when I invited him over we didn’t have sex because I felt like he was still sleeping with his ex… well he was extremely sweet when he left not rude or anything but I haven’t heard from him.. so I reached out and he writes me back but then ghost me again… so I reached out just to let him know I really like him and his response was “chill out” I didn’t respond back because I’m like of you don’t like me just keep ignoring me… I’m so confused I’m a cancer women with an Aries moon and a Capricorn rising and I still can’t figure this guy out… he’s a March 10 baby.. we had AMAZING CONVERSATION sometimes I don’t know if he likes me or did I make everything up…

    1. Hi Ari Girl!

      Your Aries moon and Capricorn rising is making you impatient and overly analytical. If he is telling you to “chill out” it’s probably because he’s going through some things and he’s overwhelmed. Pisces men cool off when they’re dealing with lots of stress just like a Cancer would typically. Scorpio can tend to do this as well. The thing is, your Earth and Fire sign is taking over and making you doubt him and being impatient with him. You do need to keep the communication open and be sure that you’re not jumping to conclusions or doubting him when he tells you that he’s alright and you should stay calm.

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