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Pisces Man Hot as Lava then Cold as an Ice Cube: Why and What To Do

Are you dating a Pisces man who started out being hot and heavy then suddenly just turned into a cold fish? There may be a good reason for it. Keep reading to uncover what it is that Pisces man would go from extreme hot to extreme cold.

Not Fully Committed

Pisces men are looking for deeper meaning when it comes to sex and love. In his early years; he may not understand what he is looking for. This causes him to do things that are less than ideal.

This means he could blow very hot, get in the sack with a beautiful woman, and then act as though it never happened then she never hears from him again. As the Pisces man ages; he becomes a bit more responsible.

In youth, Pisces men like to experiment and see what is out there before they settle down. If you’re dating an immature Pisces male; he may be trying to “hit it and quit it”.

This is the type of guy that will tell you everything you’ve ever wanted to hear, do all the right things, and turn you on more than you ever have in your life. He’ll then sex you up and then be out the door.

If this is the case; he’s not committed to you and isn’t looking for a relationship. He should have told you but if he had; he wouldn’t have been able to get your goods right? He knows this.

If he isn’t talking about committing to you then he is just in it to win it and get what he wants then move on. He’ll be fantastic at what he does for sure and you’ll get hooked but then you’ll have to let go.

Fell into Infatuation Too Quickly

Pisces Man Falling in Love To Quickly

There are some Pisces men that get so excited that they’ve found a wonderful woman who is so beautiful that he’ll forget what he’s looking for in a mate. The feeling of infatuation makes him think he’s in love.

Sadly he’ll go along with this until he realizes that it was in fact; just infatuation then he’ll back peddle, get cold, not talk much, and basically not know what to do. Either he’ll break it off or he’ll push for you to.

He loves being in love but he doesn’t seem to see the difference when it happens at first. Everyone gets excited when they date someone new. He takes it to levels you cannot even imagine.

He falls in love and then realizes that it’s not really love, it’s lust. Then he wants to bail. If he doesn’t bail; he’ll continue his search without even telling you that is his plan. This means he can and will cheat.

Not all Pisces men cheat but they have the capacity to and certainly will go with what they feel at any given moment. Be careful when he comes on really strong from the get go. He needs time to see if it’s real or not and so do you.

Rising Sign or Moon Sign

Pisces Man Hot and Cold Behaviour

Pisces men will act differently if they happen to have a more aggressive or colder sign in a prevalent spot in their chart. If they have a Taurus or Virgo rising sign or moon sign; they may ice people out at times.

Scorpio is another sign that he could have that would make him play the hot and cold game. It becomes important to know what other signs your Pisces man has in place because it surely can affect how he acts versus a typical Pisces.

Planets play a much larger role than one would think. For Pisces; he’s a lover and a romance artist. However; he can abuse this if he has a sign in his major placements that would indicate he’s also very cold at times.

This could be one facet to why he would blow very hot and then turn very cold. It’s not an instinctual thing for him however; a planetary placement in the right spot could make him act very differently. It’s important to find out what his rising sign or moon sign is as it plays a role.

Watery Coolness

Pisces Man Cold Behaviour

Keep in mind that a Pisces man is a water sign. This means that he has the capacity to go with the flow yet he also has the ability to become quite chilly when he feels things are not going his way.

It’s not that he wants to hurt anyone or be a hard-ass though. It’s more that he didn’t know what he was really getting into when he went in with full force. He didn’t see what was about to happen and thus fell on his face.

Even when you’re in a committed relationship with a Pisces man; he will sometimes have some very cynical or abrupt comments that will make you feel as though he just cut you with a knife.

Typically he will apologize for it because he’ll realize that it was not the right thing to do and wasn’t nice. However; it won’t stop him from letting things slip again in the future. He’s not perfect ladies. No one is.

Just try to remember he is human and he can sometimes be standoffish or cold just like anyone else according to their mood. Pisces men are moody for sure because the water makes them fluid like this. Everything affects them.

Read next: How to Get a Pisces Man Attention – 3 Subtle Ways That Work

What Can You Do?

If you love a Pisces man; you’ll need to understand that his moods change often and his ability to love is very strong. If he has said he loves you but gets cold on you; give him a little space.

Don’t fully pull out of the relationship; just tell him you can tell something is up and you don’t want to push so you’re going to pull back. That will get him thinking about what he’s doing or not doing.

It could result in a break up if he feels it’s not right or it could result in him looking at his errors and fixing things with you to make them better. It’s a risk but one that could be well rewarded. 

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



6 thoughts on “Pisces Man Hot as Lava then Cold as an Ice Cube: Why and What To Do

  1. I was dating a Pisces man we were so much in love then he was diagnosed with stage 4 Cancer at first he asked me if I can Handel him not talking to him for awhile I told him I will try then with in two weeks I call him I said I was sorry for calling him n he said it’s ok then he says when I feel better I will call you then he tell me it’s time to let go n I said what happened with last week then he didn’t answer me then he deleted me off of fb then had his daughter’s deleted me too so I didn’t talk to him for a month Then I find out from friends that he was in the hospital so I freak out n text him do u want to talk no answer then I text him n say this is killing me I love you n need to know what happened to us still no answer then I text him n I say I know u told me not to call you but I need to know if I hurt you or your family in any way that you deleted me off of fb then u have your daughters do it to then u posted a picture of you on fb that u was in the hospital Then I have all of our friends calling me n texting me asking what happened to him n I tell them that he isn’t talking to me they ask y I have to say I have no fucking clue I don’t know what I did he doesn’t text me back so I wait two days n text him I am sorry for the texts I love you please please take care of yourself I understand Then out of the blue he texts me and says hi how r u doing I say ok n u and he says good days n bad days in hospital for 12 days I say I hope more good then bad he says the same he says in the hospital blood count was low so I ask is it ok now n he says yes I say that’s a good sign how is your chemo doing sick then I ask when is his chemo again he said in two weeks I say I miss you he sends me a picture of him I say Awe Then he says I think for now u need to move on I say my heart tells me different he says good night I say forever r we done He said I think so I need a lot of time I say I will always be here for you No answer

    1. Hi Debbie!

      He is overwhelmed with all that is going on with him. Pisces can only take so much and really by you texting him so often, he’s feeling pressured and bombarded while he is dealing with so much already. What he is dealing with is VERY difficult sweetheart. Try for a moment to think from his perspective about what he’s living with and going through and ask yourself if you could handle someone sending you a bunch of texts expressing their feelings. He cannot deal with anyone else’s feelings when he already has to deal with his and his family’s. I hope this makes sense. Give him time and space. He may come back around if he pulls through this. Send him some prayers.

  2. Meet a Pisces man in March. We were texting for about a week and then he asked me out. It started where I was seeing him twice a week. One night we were having a conversation and I asked him had he been intimate with anyone since we had become intimate and he said yes and it was the day after we first were intimate. I was a little taken back but, I got over it and wanted to see where this went. He texts me every day but, now he has no time for me I haven’t seen him in 3 weeks we have facetime maybe 4 times during the 3 weeks. He says he’s busy with work and just life events. Yesterday I asked him if I could come by his place since I was close literally 10 min and he said he was tired and going to bed. I asked him was he avoiding me and he said no he told me he was just really busy and I need to stop overthinking. I then asked him has he had sex with anyone in the 3 weeks I haven’t see him and he told me yes that it was the same woman from the last time and that he did it because it was more convenient for him to get sex from her. He was very cold about it and told me it is what it is. I feel like he wants me to just end things because he had no remorse or even cared that I was upset about it. We’ve only been dating for 2 months and I don’t know if I should walk away or stick around to see if he will commit to me. I don’t bombard him with texts or calls I’m actually a busy person myself but, I make time for him a little more than he does for me. His 33 y/o and I’m 41 y/o and I’m an Aries sun, Capricorn Moon, and Taurus Rising. Should I just move one?

    1. Hi Carrie Smith!

      Oh honey… he sounds completely indecisive and non-committal. I’m not sure if this guy is worth your while. If he’s getting sex with other women then he’s definitely not even close to wanting a relationship. You can try asking him for exclusivity without the actual “commitment” to see if he bites but I think you deserve a man who is into you only and will do anything to be with you. Get on with your own path and take care of yourself sweetheart. You deserve the moon and then some! I wish you the best!

  3. Hi Anna. I’ve been in an exclusive relationship with a Pisces man born in March. Everything at the beginning was so great. He was really loving and working so hard to be with me and stay with me. We’ve had some problems, such as me being insecure and not trusting him a bit. I met him through my best friend(a male), who I think got me not trusting him because of the things he claimed to know about him. Long story short. He broke up with me recently, saying he has a lot to deal with personally and can’t focus on both(his life and our relationship). He said he needs space. But he doesn’t want to cut off contact. I’m so confused!

    1. Hi Lettie!

      That sounds pretty typical of a Pisces man. They get overwhelmed and then start cutting off things problem by problem instead of dealing with it and facing the issues. He’s probably not lying when he says he can’t do his life and relationship at the same time. I hate hearing this for you sweetheart. Give him that space and go do your own thing. If he doesn’t want to cut off contact then you can still message him here and there but don’t make yourself available every single time for him. Maybe he does just need to figure out his life so he can get back on track and be with you. Please take care of yourself sweetheart!

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