Hello, gorgeous! So you’ve set your sights on a Pisces man, but you have noticed that he tends to blow hot and cold. You might be wondering why is your Pisces man acting weird? One minute they’re all over you, the next you never hear from them for days.
What is up with the Pisces man hot and cold behavior? It is so frustrating because all you probably want to do is move forward with him, but when you check again, it feels like you’re only going backwards.
What are Pisces men’s bad traits in love? Why are Pisces men so cold? It can be very confusing to try to understand this phenomenon. What a nightmare!
But don’t worry, you have come to the right place, and I can put your mind at ease and make you understand why this happens and what you need to do about it.
So if you’re curious to find out why is your Pisces man acting hot and cold, then keep reading to find out more. I promise you’ll understand what to do next.
Why Are Pisces So Hot And Cold?
Keep in mind that a Pisces man is a water sign. This means that he has the capacity to go with the flow yet he also has the ability to become quite chilly when he feels things are not going his way.
It’s not that he wants to hurt anyone or be a hard-ass though. It’s more that he didn’t know what he was really getting into when he went in with full force. He didn’t see what was about to happen and thus fell on his face.
Even when you’re in a committed relationship with a Pisces man, he will sometimes have some very cynical or abrupt comments that will make you feel as though he just cut you with a knife.
Typically he will apologize for it because he’ll realize that it was not the right thing to do and wasn’t nice. However; it won’t stop him from letting things slip again in the future. Ladies, he’s not perfect! No one is.
Just try to remember he is human and he can sometimes be standoffish or cold just like anyone else according to their mood. Pisces men are moody for sure because the water makes them fluid like this. Everything affects them.
Learn more about some warning signs a Pisces man is playing you <<
What Makes A Pisces Turn Cold? — 4 Possible Reasons
He Doesn’t Want To Be Fully Committed
Pisces men are looking for deeper meaning when it comes to sex and love. In his early years, he may not understand what he is looking for. This causes him to do things that are less than ideal.
This means he could blow very hot, get in the sack with a beautiful woman, and then act as though it never happened then she never hears from him again. As the Pisces man ages; he becomes a bit more responsible.
In youth, Pisces men like to experiment and see what is out there before they settle down. If you’re dating an immature Pisces male; he may be trying to “hit it and quit it”.
This is the type of guy who will tell you everything you’ve ever wanted to hear, do all the right things, and turn you on more than you ever have in your life. He’ll then sex you up and then be out the door.
If this is the case; he’s not committed to you and isn’t looking for a relationship. He should have told you but if he had, he wouldn’t have been able to get your goods right? He knows this.
If he isn’t talking about committing to you then he is just in it to win it and get what he wants then move on. He’ll be fantastic at what he does for sure and you’ll get hooked but then you’ll have to let go.
Here’s more about why Pisces men avoid commitment.
He Fell In Love With You Too Quickly
There are some Pisces men that get so excited that they’ve found a wonderful woman who is so beautiful that he’ll forget what he’s looking for in a mate. The feeling of infatuation makes him think he’s in love.
Sadly he’ll go along with this until he realizes that it was in fact; just infatuation then he’ll back peddle, get cold, not talk much, and basically not know what to do. Either he’ll break it off or he’ll push for you to.
A Pisces man loves being in love but he doesn’t seem to see the difference when it happens at first. Everyone gets excited when they date someone new. He takes it to levels you cannot even imagine.
He falls in love and then realizes that it’s not really love, it’s lust. Then he wants to bail. If he doesn’t bail; he’ll continue his search without even telling you that is his plan. This means he can and will cheat.
Not all Pisces men cheat but they have the capacity to and certainly will go with what they feel at any given moment. Be careful when he comes on really strong from the get go. He needs time to see if it’s real or not and so do you.
If you struggle with getting your Pisces man to open up and finding the right words to make him feel special, I strongly suggest getting my Pisces Man Love Language guide. It will help you finally speak the same love language as him, and make your bond so much stronger.
He May Think You Are Not Into Him
Pisces men are highly sensitive and they love to explore the realms of the subconscious. This includes his emotional desires and feelings.
When you open your heart to him and share your secret feelings and longgings, your Pisces man will feel closer to you. He will easily fall in love with you and will feel like you’re exactly the kind of woman he can spend the rest of his life with.
The worst thing you can do with a Pisces man is to hide your feelings or play cool, trying to always be stoic and strong rather than showing vulnerability. This is a one-way street ladies. Such behavior may lead him to think you are not into him and he will start blowing cold in your direction.
Being kind and open to him is the first step to making him see that you’re a safe person. He needs to understand that you have no alternate agenda and that the only reason you’re looking for him to open up is because you want to be there for him.
This is the first step to creating that bond that you’re after. At that point, you’ll notice him being more honest about his intentions with you.
Rising Sign Or Moon Sign Play Their Parts
Pisces men will act differently if they happen to have a more aggressive or colder sign in a prevalent spot in their chart. If they have a Taurus or Virgo rising sign or moon sign; they may ice people out at times.
Scorpio is another sign that he could have that would make him play the hot and cold game. It becomes important to know what other signs your Pisces man has in place because it surely can affect how he acts versus a typical Pisces.
Planets play a much larger role than one would think. For Pisces; he’s a lover and a romance artist. However; he can abuse this if he has a sign in his major placements that would indicate he’s also very cold at times.
This could be one facet to why he would blow very hot and then turn very cold. It’s not an instinctual thing for him however; a planetary placement in the right spot could make him act very differently. It’s important to find out what his Rising sign or Moon sign is as it plays a role.
When A Pisces Man Goes Cold — What To Do?
If you love a Pisces man; you’ll need to understand that his moods change often and his ability to love is very strong. If he has said he loves you but gets cold on you; give him a little space.
Don’t fully pull out of the relationship; just tell him you can tell something is up and you don’t want to push so you’re going to pull back. That will get him thinking about what he’s doing or not doing.
It could result in a breakup if he feels it’s not right or it could result in him looking at his errors and fixing things with you to make them better. It’s a risk but one that could be well rewarded.
Ask him if there is anything you can do to help him or offer him; he will think the world of you for being so entirely sweet. This helps him open up where he might not otherwise.
If he’s going through a hard time and you can tell but he’s not being verbal about it, you can tell him, “I noticed that you’re maybe having a hard time. If you need me to help with anything, I’m here.”
You may also want to read: What To Do When A Pisces Man Does’t Want A Relationship
How To Handle A Pisces Man Being Cold All Of A Sudden?
You can tell him your viewpoint and ask him how he sees this relationship going, but ultimately, tell him that you’ll be there for him no matter what he does. This is a very important secret to a happy relationship with a Pisces man. Talk to each other about important things.
Make him feel like he’s in control, because if there’s chaos in a situation, Pisces will stay away from it at all costs. Once you have his mind, you will also have his heart. Keep the conversation alive, don’t sound needy or clingy. He wants ease in love—no hard talk, no judging, and no accusations.
Pisces man needs a partner who won’t rush him, who listens without judgment, and who also performs the way Pisces is expected to.
I know that you’re naturally loving because you’re here trying to learn how to understand him. And it can be confusing and frustrating when a Pisces man suddenly goes cold on you. But have you considered that he might be testing you?
The video below features seven ways in which Pisces men test you and how to overcome those tests:
Pisces Man Disappears After Intimacy — What Can You Do?
The Pisces man in general needs encouragement almost constantly in his life. His sex life is no different. He craves pleasure in physical touch. This guy is pretty incredible inside and outside the bedroom. It is very easy to fall in love with a Pisces man because he is so intuitive and emotionally intelligent. You can only imagine how this translates into the bedroom.
The Pisces man is a bit of an enigma when it comes to sex. He has many different roles he likes to play in the bedroom. At first, you might think he is incredibly shy and reserved, but the more you sleep with him, the more you’ll notice he definitely knows his way around the bedroom because his moves are magical!
This makes him open to trying new things and perhaps answers your question about why Pisces are so cold.
The thing is, he wants to do it all the time. The funny thing is that he talks a lot about sex but seems to not have much of it unless the right woman blows his mind in the sack.
If a Pisces man disappears after intimacy, avoid calling him and flooding his inbox with messages. He needs time to reflect on his emotions and thoughts.
However, if his disappearance has made you confused, you should communicate openly about it. Tell him how you feel, be calm, and ask him to explain his behavior. Don’t jump to conclusions and assume the worst!
If you want to keep him in a relationship with you alone, you had better be prepared to keep the fires burning in intimacy. When he becomes bored, he shuts off and would just rather not bother.
FAQ On Pisces Man Hot And Cold Behavior
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Pisces man and will he come back after the breakup?
Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Pisces man.
How Do You Know If A Pisces Man Has Feelings For You?
If he calls you and texts you, if he initiates conversations and makes time to be with you, you can be sure that Pisces man has feelings for you.
He will want to spend more time with you thus asking you out or asking you to do more things with him. He wants to get closer to you and get to know you better.
Pisces man wants to be around the woman he likes as often as he can because he enjoys that time plus he is trying to determine if you’re the soul mate he’s been looking for.
What Turns A Pisces Man Off?
Lack of spirituality and cold approach are number one Pisces man’s turn offs! Check here what else turns a Pisces man off <<
Pisces man wants to have a meaningful connection with his perfect lady. It’s important for him to be able to share this side of himself with someone who “gets” him. If that’s not there, he can’t fully engage.
Also, he will not be interested in a woman who is not capable of creating a romantic connection.
Will A Pisces Man Tell You He’s Not Interested?
Pisces man is a very sensitive man, and as such, he doesn’t want to be a part of conflicts and confrontations. That means he will not tell you if he is not interested in you but will rather leave you wondering and trying to figure it out for yourself.
He is highly emotional and would rather avoid discomfort than hit you with the truth! This is why Pisces are so secretive.
Stop Crying Yourself To Sleep About Your Pisces Man…
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Pisces man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Pisces guys. I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her.
She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.
As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that.
But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.
Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.
How could she just give up on that?
But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.
She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Pisces man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…