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When a Pisces Man Ignores You This Is What You Can Do

When a Pisces man ignores you, it can feel like a tiny dagger has thrust through your heart. You know he must be pretty upset if he’s not talking to you. If a Pisces man doesn’t contact you, there are things you need to understand.

You can do more than you think. You are not helpless when a Pisces man ignores you. If you’re asking yourself “why is my Pisces ignoring me?”  You will need to keep reading to learn what you can do when a Pisces man ignores you.

Signs Of When A Pisces Man Ignores You

To know what to do when a Pisces man ignores you, you first have to know what the signs are when the Pisces man disappearing act comes into play. He has ways that he is showing you what is going on.

If a Pisces man doesn’t contact you at all, he’s in a mode of either questioning things or the relationship. It could also be that he’s figuring out that you’re not the one for him. When a Pisces man ignores your text, you know there is an issue.

He can have a million and one excuses but when it comes to you knowing what is going on, you need to understand that when a if a Pisces man doesn’t contact you, he’s making a bold statement that you probably should consider moving on.

Yes, perhaps he’s just having some problems he’s trying to sort through that have nothing to do with you but then again, if he’s not speaking to you at all whatsoever or doing the Pisces man disappearing act then he’s finalizing his decision.

I want to provide you with what to do when your Pisces man backs off. In the sections below, you will understand how you have to behave and look further at the same time into whether he’s done or he’s just going through something.

What To Do When Your Pisces Man Backs Off

Below are definitive things you can do on your part while you try to figure out what is going on with your Pisces man. Whether he’s doing the Pisces man disappearing act or if he’s just unsure; these things should help you.

Be More Positive

Pisces men are super sensitive and don’t like negative energy of any kind. They don’t like it when women gossip, talk badly about others, and they sure don’t like being nagged.

If you’ve done something that falls into this category, you’re going to have to do some work for him to see that you’re trying to be more positive. Try catching yourself when you’re about to say something negative and reverse it.

Try to be upbeat and optimistic around him or through your text messages even. However you normally communicate with him, say inspiring and positive things. He’s more likely to respond to you.

Pisces men are dreamers which mean they don’t like anything that would crush his dreams or his hopes about life. Being negative around him makes him feel like you don’t take his passion and love seriously.

If your Pisces guy is upset with you and is the reason he’s ignoring you, you’ll need to flip around and be super sweet to him. Compliment him, say nice things about other people, and just generally be really optimistic.

Really this is good for your life anyway and sometimes it takes a sensitive Pisces man to put you on hold to make you think about your own actions that needs to be remedied.

When He’s Hurt or Angry

When a Pisces Man Ignores You

If your Pisces man is either very angry with your or hurt, it’s going to require a bit of work. First, he’s going to want some time and space to sort his heart out. He may want to think about why he’s with you.

When a Pisces man ignores your text, what you’ll need to do is let him know that you are sorry if you hurt him without thinking or made him angry when it wasn’t right. You apologize and tell him you won’t do it again.

Then you tell him that when he’s ready to talk to you, that you’re there for him. Give him some time. I’d say that the time frame you have to wait will rely on how bad it really was.

It may be days then again it may be weeks. Sometimes Pisces men break up with women due to being so overwhelmed but then a year or two later, he’s ready to give it another shot.

You never can tell which direction he’s going to swing because it’s all based on what he feels. However, if you apologize for what happened and tell him you’re working on it and won’t do it again, he may come around sooner.

If you do not apologize, he will hold it against you and it may be a good long while before he talks to you again. Then when you do reach out to him, he may tell you off or just not ever reply again.

It all depends on how bad it was and how much time he feels he needs. Just be sure to admit your fault (if it was your fault) and let him know that you’re there for him.

When He Is Ignoring Communication

This is where things take a turn that you probably will not appreciate. Pisces men do tend to ghost people if they decide that their partner isn’t the right one. This would mean he ignores your texts or doesn’t call you back.

I wouldn’t wait for too long while this is going on. If you gone a week or two without him responding to you, he may not be into you anymore or thinks that he’s done.

What you’ll do is test him to see what the deal is. Text him and tell him “I really deserve to know what is going on between us, can you please give me clarity?” and see if he responds.

If he doesn’t respond then you’re going to have to consider that he may not be into the relationship anymore. If he does reply, you’ll quickly see which way he is swinging.

When a Pisces man ignores your text he may tell you he’s been busy, been thinking about things, or that he thinks that it’s just not what he wants at the time. Either way, you’re going to get some sort of answer whether he texts back or ignores it.

I hate to say it but once Pisces man decides to move on, he does so. He may move on with someone else or he may just move on from the woman he feels it’s not working with.

There isn’t much you can do when he acts this way other than ask him why he isn’t speaking with you. Be forward with it and see if he answers or if he continues to be quiet.

Possibly Dealing With Personal Stuff

When a Pisces Man Ignores You

There is also the possibility that the Pisces man is going through some things that he doesn’t really feel ready to open up to you about thus he pulls a disappearing act or ignores you for short intervals.

When a Pisces man ignores your text, he doesn’t always know the right thing to say when he feels uncomfortable or uncertain. If something is happening his family or he has extra work. Perhaps his job is giving him trouble.

He won’t open up until he feels he can trust his partner 100%. Sometimes he doesn’t want to burden his partner with his problems either so he’ll hold back by being very quiet.

He may not even be upset with you at all. If he suddenly started this ignoring you thing out of absolutely nowhere then something is going on with him so you shouldn’t assume it’s about your relationship.

If a Pisces man doesn’t contact you, give him some time and let him know you’re there for him when or if he wants to discuss things. If it IS outer circumstances, he’ll thank you and will open up when he’s ready.

If you are asking yourself “why is my Pisces ignoring me?” Then be ready to understand what to do so do yourself a favor and click here to learn more about Pisces Man Secrets.

I do hope this helps you figure out what to do when your Pisces man backs off. I know this was a heavy topic so let me share something fun with you.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



18 thoughts on “When a Pisces Man Ignores You This Is What You Can Do

  1. I had a huge crush on a Pisces man and he accepted it and it he wanted to see where it went. We became friends in a way, but my feelings were so strong that I didn’t think anything through before acting. So I’m guessing that’s what made him push away from me. But he’d talk to me when we worked together. He left a few weeks ago to a new job and it was like a week ago that I texted asking to start over and he seemed fine with it. But I’m noticing he’s starting to ignore me and idk if its bc he’s not comfortable with opening up to me.

    1. Hi Zandreya!

      Well, if he is doing a new job then it’s likely he’s probably very busy. His life has changed and he needs to get adapted to the way his life has become. That may mean not talking to you as much until he’s feeling as though he’s comfortable in his situation again. Don’t give up on him just yet honey. Talk to him and make sure he knows you’re still there for him!

  2. I am a Pisces man and I have just experienced the worst birthday gift of my entire life from a Scorpio Lady. we both live in 2 different countries and we were in Spain for my birthday. Because of the Coronavirus, she could not make it back to her country. She started panicking and I told her that at least we were together and we could quarantine together. So She booked a flight with me on the way back home. The next day, I told her I planed something during the weekend that involved social interaction and she flipped and panicked saying that I was inconsiderate. she then tolm me She did not feel safe about being with me anymore. I said ok, and I add that I don’t even know what is going to happen when back. Anyway long story short, She has a friend / colleague in the UK. She told me that she is going there. I said OK. but Then I start going cold and distant (thinking I think she is joking but if not gone for good)… Anyway, the next morning, she wished me a happy birthday and told me she could not come along with me in the city… so I went alone… 2 hours later she sent me a message saying I have RE-booked my flight for tonight 18:00… in the same time she told me that my birthday gift was a cabaret starting at 16:00 and it was the best show in town. I came back to the hotel at 14:00 and we talk for a hour, She chose the day of my birthday to leave me, where she could have chosen 2 more days to go. I told her, If you leave to the UK, it is end of story. She said that I did not get it and left… and just before leaving she asked “do you think we are going to see each other again”, my answer was “we’ll see”… I know now that is a crying NO… She abandonned me. Acts talk louder than words. No contact and grieving period for me during this quarantine time. She knows what she did… Best of luck in life to her. I am gone for good. Ciao

    1. HI Remz!

      I’m sorry to hear about your birthday. Yes this virus is putting a damper on many people’s lives currently. I think maybe she was terrified about going to be social given the state of things right now. She probably thought you were being careless trying take her somewhere to be around other people. She probably thought it would just be the two of you and she was alright with that until you told her that it would be social. I”m sorry she chose your birthday to leave. I know how hurt you feel and I’m so very sorry you had to deal with all of this. If she’s not the one, someone else is. Don’t close your heart my friend. I wish you all the best.

  3. I dated a Pisces man for for 2 months. Things were going great and I felt we were both enjoying the time we spent together. Just recently, he asked me to stay over at his place and I did. That was the first night we were intimate. I had asked him to kiss me and from there it happened. The next morning, I had noticed him a bit distant. He didn’t hug me like the night before nor tried to make plans together for breakfast. Before we parted, I had asked him what his schedule was for the week and the weather would probably improve. He said if I wanted to go on a walk over the weekend, to let him know. He kissed me a few times and that was that. Since, he hasn’t responded to my text messages nor my call. We would write to each other everyday and this is the first time he has done this.
    I don’t know what is currently going on in his mind or if it’s something I may have done.I never expected this type of reaction from him at all. I do not know what to do. I texted him to let me know if there was something I did or something I said. If so, to tell me so that I may apologize. I’m scared to think that I may have lost him and not know exactly why. What should I do and why is he ignoring me out of the blue?

    1. Hi Eri!

      Either he changed his mind about you or changed his mind about the relationship. He could be doing it out of fear or he could be doing it because he started talking to someone else who he thinks could be a better fit for him. There are many things that could be going on but if he’s stopped being close to you and isn’t talking then he’s telling you in a way that he’s done. He won’t be brave enough to say it. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  4. Okay so I started talking to this amazing pieces man just a week and a half ago. He really admired me and always wanted to hold on to me. Just a day and a half ago we talked how we should see each other 3 days out the week so we won’t be distracting each other. But we didn’t say no texting or calling. He hasn’t responded to me through text or called back since early afternoon yesterday.
    I forgot to mention his ex recent, who has another bf, still linger around. Idk if shes interfering with him communicating or if he’s just busy. I’ve never connected with someone so well before at all and definitely want him to stay around. What do I do? 😣

    1. Hi Lerris!

      It does sound like he’s distracted or has something going on that he’s not talking to you about. I would remind him about the date and that you really miss texting with him. If he still doesn’t respond then you’ll have to stop talking to him for awhile and see if he steps forward. If he doesn’t then you may have to let go. For now though, try what I told you. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  5. my Pisces man and I are currently engaged to get married. We have had a really good relationship and he was really excited about the marriage. Then some stuff happened with my mom kind of getting too involved and I had to find out from his friend’s wife what was going on because he wouldn’t talk to me about it. He said that he was fine. And it was because my mom overstepped I told her to back off. And I told him I choose him over her. He said no would go to your family. And I said I still want you and I told her to back off. Ever since then about 12 days ago I haven’t spoken to him. He said he needed time to think he didn’t know what he wanted. He said that he didn’t know what was going on with him and it scared him. I so at this point I haven’t seen him in 14 days. And have not spoken to him in 12. I have no idea what is going on with us. At this point our Facebook status still shows engaged. Last time when he broke up with me being instantly blocked me on Facebook and ended it. He stated he needed to be a better man for me and he couldn’t be at that point and he thought he was ready for a relationship. Three weeks later you texted me telling me that he had made a mistake and that he hopes that I will get him a chance. And I did. He ended it the end of August 2019 and we got back together mid September 2019. And we got engaged December 2019. And had plans to get married September 26th 2020. I have known him for about 15 years. And we have dated on and off not really seriously. I have talked to three different psychics. To said that he just needed time and he will come back and be ready to marry me. The mean one the said that he will have it be my decision if I want to continue the engagement and that we should be married sometime next year and now we have a happy marriage and we both learn to be able to communicate better. When things are bothering him he tends not to talk to me but go to his friends instead. then today is booked with a different psychic and she said that he is not sure that he wants to get married. He is worried that he will get hurt like he has before. And he hasn’t told me because he is afraid to hurt my feelings. So I am very lost and don’t know what to do or believe. I have downloaded all the books. And read them but I don’t feel like it will help me very much. Because at this time I am in the state of giving him his space. So I still don’t know what he wants or what he has decided.

    1. Hi Heather!

      Darling if you don’t know, it’s better to ask him directly. Asking other people only gets you speculation. Psychics give subjective readings and things can change with free will. I’m telling you that instead of guessing or second guessing, you need to tell him you want to have a talk with him. Sit down and discuss all your feelings, ask him what his are and ask him what he wants. Then and only then are you going to get some answers. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  6. I m a libra, n my bf is Pisces… I know he loves me very much but he gets very easily angry with silly things and block me, but then after a few hours he unblocks n texts me again. He promised to change himself, n he did it too… He became better than before but all of a sudden, he again got angry with a silly thing n started ignoring me… I’m really confused, I don’t wanna lose him… What do I do to help him in reducing his anger n keep him loving me? Plus it’s long distanced relationship.

    1. Hi Jane!

      Yes Pisces men are emotional and can get upset easily. They typically have too much going on in their head and heart that they cannot cope with any added stress. That being said it sounds like he needs to work on himself before he’ll be ready to be with anyone otherwise it’s all going to go down the drain. You cannot do anything to help him. He has to help himself. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  7. I’ve been dating a Pisces man for 10months now. Everything was perfect except we stayed in different cities so it was long distance. It wasn’t a problem bc I was planning on moving out but then corona virus showed up and I decided I’ll move next year. Every time we planned to see each other he always switched off his phone and apologized later and I’d start thinking he’s avoiding me. He told me he’s not avoiding me and that I should give him a chance to do better which I did. I still felt like he wasn’t gonna make time for me so I decided to go out clubbing a lot and not caring about the relationship thinking maybe he’d see that I’m independent and need me but instead he went quiet. I kept texting him a lot asking what’s up and he said he was having a lot of anxiety and problems that he didn’t want to be a burden to me I thought people who date support each other but he prefers to be distant. He usually disappears I’m used to it and things are better after but this time I feel like I’m losing him but he’s online and not answering my texts at all. Please help

    1. Hi Nana!

      Yikes… ok so when you wanted to show him that you don’t need him and that you’re independent, he figured that he didn’t really need you either and cut it off. He was probably pretty upset that you were going out a lot without him and not giving him the attention you were before. Pisces men don’t like being put off even though they themselves do it. It sounds like he’s not as committed as you are and you need to ask him flat out what his intention is now with you. Get the clarity you need. If you need to know more about Pisces men, please check out my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  8. my pisces bf is always focused on his school work, and i always leave him alone when he wants to do work, but he will ghost me in the middle of a convo to do work. then he will say hes going to bed, but catch him talking and playing games with his friends 4 hours later, and he acts like nothing happened and were fine, he loves giving me affection and we are not intimate and not planing to be for a while, but he loves kisses. when ever i ask if we can hang he says “sorry i cant, my parents wont let me” with out even trying to ask them. Hes a huge softy around me, talks to me differently then everyone else, he opens up to me, telles me ab his future etc, and tells me he loves me. but sometimes he becomes distant for a day or so, then is right back to wanting cuddles and kisses. Im a virgo and idk how to feel rn bc i think i might be in love with him. Anne please give me tips?

    1. Hi Kay!

      He sounds like he’s not matured enough to realize that he needs to communicate better with you. You’ll have to let him know that you need a bit more from him if you’re going to make it work. Tell him if he cannot talk anymore then he needs to let you know instead of just disappearing. Distance is normal for Pisces as they have to get control over their thoughts and emotions. If you’d like to learn more, please check out my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  9. I been texting with a Pisces man for about 5 months, this long distance thing, we met online and haven’t had the opportunity to met on person.
    We text almost daily but with since we start texting he at least went radio silence 3 times (he was absent like 5 days and then he text again). We have talk about very personal and deep stuff and he also have told that he is there for me and he is waiting for me but when I ask for a phone call so we can understand us better he didn’t call despite telling me that he really wanted to talk to me.
    In this time he also have some family issues, so I don’t know if that is affecting him.
    I am really confused about he is into me or not, if I should reach two him to get clarity or just wait for him to contact me again.

    1. Hi Lexi!

      Ok you won’t get clarity until you two meet up. That has to happen or all of this is a moot point. Online is one thing but having been together in person is entirely different. Some people find they don’t have the chemistry they want and some find that they do. So until you two meet up and really figure things out, things aren’t likely to get much better. Tell him you want to meet up as soon as possible so you can see what you two may have together. You can also read my series “Pisces Man Secrets”.

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