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Understanding a Pisces Man – Why Is He so Difficult to Read?

What is it about that Pisces man that has so many women confused? He reads so hot and then sometimes very cold. Why does he act the way he does? Keep reading for some help to understanding a Pisces man.

Head in The Clouds

The Pisces man is known for being quite a proficient dreamer. This means he spends a great deal of time spacing off and day dreaming about what he wants, what he thinks he can get, and where he wants to be.

This can cause conflict in a relationship because he’ll seem cold, distant, callous, or uncaring when he’s like this. He doesn’t mean to be this way but he has to have time and space to do this otherwise he won’t feel normal.

He may space off texts or phone calls because his head is somewhere else. He may not be trying to ignore you but it sure seems that way when you know he’s at home on a Friday night not doing much yet doesn’t respond.

This is what makes women start to doubt their Pisces man’s love for them. It’s understandable but if you really get to know him, then you’ll understand that he can be a bit of a space case.

If you know he loves you and he otherwise treats you like gold, then try to remember that when you feel he’s being distant or not giving you enough attention.

Dreams allow him to toss around great ideas that can become goals. When he makes goals, he’ll eventually act on these goals then become successful. There is a process with this guy.

Then again, there are other times where he’ll waste all this time fantasizing and never does anything about it. This is often why he needs a partner that will help motivate or inspire him to take some action.

Tug of War with Love

Understanding a Pisces Man

The Pisces man is one that seems rather confusing when he loves you one minute then at other times acts terrified of where things are headed. He may talk about the future with you but then back peddle.

He could be all in and then at some point says that he needs to slow down because he feels overwhelmed with his feelings. This really makes him quite frustrating and yes, hard to understand.

The only thing that gets him over the hurdle is by the right partner showing him that she’s there for him and loves him truly over a period time. Each Pisces man will be different as to how long it will take him.

Patience and tender loving care is required. Though he may annoy you or even hurt your feelings when he expresses concerns, all you can really do is reassure him as best as you can and wait for his worries to pass.

If he’s truly in love with you and knows that you’ll do just about anything for him, he will at some point let go of that fear that paralyzes him when it comes to long lasting love.

His Heart is on his Sleeve

This guy is for the most part very honest with his feelings when he feels something. If he’s in love with you, he will make it known that he feels that way. Either he’ll say it or he’ll show you.

What’s frustrating is when he has doubts and tries to talk to you about it. You feel like he’s backing out, not interested anymore, or wants to leave. The thing is, he’s just talking to you.

Communication is really crucial when it comes to relating to a Pisces man. He wants to be able to tell his partner everything. That includes when he feels doubt or anxiety. If he cannot talk to you, who can he talk to?

You’ve got to be really careful because if he ever feels he cannot talk to you and be honest, he’ll move on. You want him to feel totally comfortable with talking to you openly.

It may be hard to hear when he says he’s afraid but it’s better that than him ghosting you and not telling you anything right? I’d say it’s better to hear the truth even if it hurts.

Loner at the Core

Understanding a Pisces Man

This is truly confusing because when a Pisces man is in love, he wants to spend a lot of time with his lady. However, until he gets there, he tends to spend copious amounts of time alone. He’s a bit of a loner or hermit.

He prefers not having to talk or explain how he feels or what he thinks to the world. He feels misunderstood by most and is why he keeps to himself. This makes it hard when someone wants to date him.

However, when he feels safe and comfortable with his potential partner, he will start to open up and so once he does that, he’s typically a bit more outgoing. He won’t be that way with the world but he will be this way with his lady love.

In fact, he may have a hard time with highly social women because he doesn’t like going out all that often. He prefers the comfort of his home or his lady’s home. That isn’t to say he never goes out.

He will but will take convincing him why he should. That in itself can be rather perplexing. If you’re a super social lady, you’re going to have the Pisces man’s feet dragging.

He also may not understand it when you keep taking off to do stuff when he doesn’t want to go. He feels like if you still go when he doesn’t want to, that you don’t respect his feelings.

I’m not saying that’s always the case but it often is. You really have to get to know your Pisces man as much as you can and with time, he will become less and less of a mystery. He will not be quite as aggravating by his behaviors once you “get” him.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

15 thoughts on “Understanding a Pisces Man – Why Is He so Difficult to Read?

  1. I have this Pisces man that I have fell for now were not together just really good friends but I can tell he wants more but won’t say it like he don’t wanna say how he really feels and is afraid what can I do to help him talk bout his feelings?

    1. Hi Krystal!

      If you can tell he wants to be more with you then you need to work at flirting with him and let him know somehow that you’re into him. By letting him know you’re into him, he’ll be able to feel confident enough to try to ask you out or get together with you. Give it a try! Be bold and take the risk!

  2. Hello…
    I’ve enjoyed…reading the interesting..stories of the Pisces man
    Although I’ve backed off..from this guy..of whom I thought we both took interest in one another..
    I will continue to read the articles..sent in by various ones..
    Hoping the best to All…

    1. Hi wand!

      I’m sorry to hear you’ve had to back off from a Pisces but perhaps there is a reason you were drawn to him. Perhaps you are supposed to be with a Pisces but not necessarily him. I have more than articles to offer you. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  3. I m in love relationship with my pisces first cousin For 2 years . I loved him very very much from my childhood but i proposed him when i reached in my university life and he was in search of job. He accepted my love and loved me even more…he was a needy child and crazy type in love with me…. Cared for me alot and i felt like a real queen when ever i talked to him. We chated for 2 years and I made many mistakes because i had no idea about his senstive and emotional nature. I had no experience about relationships.
    Then, everything changed. He became cold and distant and never was same. And i became needy, insecure, obssessive and crazy for his love.
    He feels nothing now and do not respect me anymore. But he never leaves me. Once he blocked me but he again came to me because he cares but he never shows and admits anymore.
    He dont want to marry me. I love him like crazy and i want to be his one and only lady.
    Please guide me what i should do to make him commit to me

    1. Hi
      I have a Pisces guy in my life for like 2 years now and counting. He’s a year younger than me(he’s 27 I’m 28)We work together and the first year we were somewhat friends and we flirted a lot he kind of pursued me for like 9 months but i never really took him seriously because we work together and plus he didn’t really made an official move (talking about taking me on dates, then actually doing it).he found out he had baby he struggled with that because he wasn’t ready for a kid and his baby mother is terrible and stresses him out…i started dating other people then he finally started making a move… we started dating for like 6 months it was good we spent everyday together, we did countless dates, he would buy me stuff, do things for me, never tells me no, we talked about everything, i met all his friends and met some family members, he was always talking about future plans with us, like house kids etc..he was like my best friend and boyfriend at the same time, i felt so comfortable around him i let my guard down and i think i fell in love with him and i know he felt the same he even made me his girlfriend which he later backpedaled on(like 3days later)smh.. but we was still going on very strong…then i lost my apartment and moved back in with parents then COVID happened which means we can’t spend as much time together like we used to. Then he started moving funny he still doesn’t tell me no but he started making excuses then he started being distant, he told me he’s not ready for relationship right now, and he doesn’t want to lead me on because he cares about me too much for that. So the dates stopped, the talking everyday stopped..even sex! I didn’t have my car anymore either(i was down, money wise atp) so he still used to make sure i got home(drives me, pays for my ubers, he even gave me his credit card number) but He was still running away from me! he started hanging out with his friends more, partying, drinking a lot, countless girls…i was upset about it i felt like i was now chasing him..he became like a robot like no emotions only when he drinks he calls me and tells me how he feels..but every time i try to leave him he finds away for me to stay! And idk why! I tried to be his friend and he tells me I’m not his friend! He doesn’t want to be my friend but he’s still not ready for a relationship and he won’t leave me alone!…atp we don’t do anything romantically sometimes we have a moments then he disappears again…he confides in me with everything, friends,family, even the girls he sleeps with then ghost them..he’s so hot n cold one min he’s on me then next min he disappears i still love him and consider me and him very close but when a holiday comes and i buy him a gift he doesn’t accept it!( I’m back up, financially wise, got my car back working on buying a house atp)He tells me he doesn’t want me buying him anything because he’s not comfortable and he don’t want to take advantage of me because he says I’m not like any other girl but i feel bad because no one buys him anything… this situation is stressful and i know this is not fair for i try to move on but i swear he won’t let me….i kind of feel like he’s not ready for me but he doesn’t want to lose me but he knows i should move on but scared that i will, he is very confused and conflicted and i can see that work my friend tells me he always looking at me and stares like a guy in love but i don’t really believe her because he doesn’t move like that..he’s so robotic with me at times and sometimes he moves shy and awkward and can’t look me in my eyes whenever i try to talk to him about my feelings…idk if he’s playing mind games or he’s being sincere…should cut him off completely, be his friend? Keep my distance? I started dating again and he hates it! He even sent me a house talking about let’s get married and let’s buy this house together….like what!??..He’s confusing me and idk what to do with him he refuses for me to give him the friendship title lol ughh what to do? I’m a cancer btw I’m very independent, beautiful and hard working, a great cook, very nice, i care about the people in my life i know my self worth,but I’m super moody, impatient, and mean and sometimes i get really mad at him but every single time he deals with it however how long without complaining, he knows everything about me and remembers everything about, he instantly knows when something is wrong with me, he tells me every time how good person i am he confides in me that he doesn’t know he he’ll ever marry another kid but then he says I’m not like any of the girls out here and i will be the best wife and mother and he wishes he met me before(and he would had love me before) i feel like he kind of has me on pedestal and he fantasize about a perfect life with us together but he get scared and doesn’t act on it(sometimes i feel like he thinks he is damaged and he doesn’t deserve me)he be saying insecure things like that sometimes but then he’s back to his confident self which i love..our emotional connection is so strong at times i feel like he’s my soulmate..i love everything about him he’s spontaneous, caring, sweet to me, strong minded, hard working, responsible, funny, a dreamer, including his flaws(immature, indecisive, all over the place,too nonchalant) but idk sometimes i feel like I’m better off without him but i can’t go 2 days mad at him, he feels like a missing puzzle piece in my life but he’s soooo annoying! What to do! Sorry this was so long lol ?

      1. Hi Norma!

        It sounds like you really need a reading or a bit of help with what the Pisces man is like so you can figure him out better. There is aa reason you are drawn to him and it may give you insight knowing why. Check out my Pisces Man Secrets book darling. When you do, it will also allow you to have a VIP consultation with me. I’d be happy to help you!

  4. Hi.
    I m in relation with a pisces man. He is my first cousin. In the start of relation hr was so romantic, warm, kind, loving, caring and treated me like his queen.
    But with passage of time he only judged me and critisize me.
    After sex he is no more interested and he does not want to marry me. He do not respect me any more. He is distant and cold. In the very early, i made some silly mistakes so he dont trusts me.
    But he never leaves me.
    He responds me. I love him like crazy and i want to be his lady.
    Please guide me what i should do to make him commit to me.

    1. Hi Alishba!

      I see you and Maryam are the same person? I’m reading the same thing twice. I still have the same advice for you honey.

  5. Hi Maryam!

    I have a feeling that perhaps he’s figured out that it’s not necessarily a good thing to fall in love with a first cousin. You are already family. There are lots of problems that arise from that type of situation and no matter what his sign is, he may be feeling the push of how badly things can go. Of course he cares for you, you are his family. He feels obligated to stay in touch for that reason but he’s made it clear he doesn’t love you in a romantic sense and doesn’t want to marry. You have to let him go. He’s not going to commit to you and there isn’t anything you can do outside of messing with his free will to make him think otherwise. I’m so sorry honey. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

    1. Hi BJ!

      Well if you need to learn more about him in order to figure out what is going on, you may want to actually read up on how Pisces guys are. It could open a doorway to understanding you never thought you’d have with him. Learn more about Pisces man through my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.

  6. *(And he wishes he met me before and *i would have loved him before) sorry i saw the typo….i love him and it’s hard to let him go but i know i should! Help

  7. Hello,I am pices and, Reason why i want be special forces operator? I wanna know,I read many about zodiac but i never find answer?Why i want to be special forces operator?

    1. Hi Luke,

      I’m afraid without viewing your chart there is no way for me to know why you want so much to be a special force operator. Is there anything holding you back? Go for it if you can. Perhaps being Pisces, you’d like to be a Marine or Naval officer. Water signs gravitate toward jobs that allow them to work in or around water. Check into it and see if you can find something that suits you.

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