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How To Go From Friends With Benefits To An Exclusive Relationship With A Pisces Man

Are you having a sweet and passionate relationship with a Pisces man but he isn’t yet committed? If you’re looking for dedication from him then you’re going to have to show him that you’re the right one for him!

It may not be an easy transition, because he’s become comfortable and he isn’t sure why he should change what the two of you have going on. It’s going to take a bit of work for you. And if you’re willing to put in the work, then keep reading and learn how to go from friends with benefits to an exclusive relationship with a Pisces man. 

Is He Capable Of A Friend With Benefits Situation?

Friend With Benefits Situation With A Pisces Man

This really is the question. If you find yourself having a fwb relationship, then you have one of the unique Pisces men than can do such a thing. The truth is, that most Pisces men cannot detach their feelings from sex.

Either the Pisces guy you are with secretly has a crush on you and only goes along with this to get closer to you, or he’s very wounded and figures he’ll just do it because, why not?

I could see where a Pisces man would be broken enough from past relationships that he just has sex for the sake of it. However, most of them do not operate this way.

The Pisces man is an idealist and lover. He falls in love easily and he falls hard. It’s difficult for him to separate his feelings from actions –he often tangles them together. Therefore, he isn’t often into a friend with benefits set-up. 

It’s very likely for a Pisces man to develop a crush or love for a woman that he’s having this sort of agreement with, because that’s just who he is. Unless he’s really traumatized, he will have feelings for you!

He may start out thinking that he won’t… but typically he will. Again, it’s very uncommon for a Pisces man to have this sort of relationship. He’d rather just date or be friends, but not sex with friendship.

Pisces Men That Will Have Friends With Benefits Relationship

For the uncommon Pisces man that does agree or suggest a friends with benefits situation, he will be very different than the average Pisces you may have encountered before.

The willing Pisces man is probably guarded from his past, and therefore is taking care of himself, not putting any investment into anyone, and is going to be nearly opposite of the typical Pisces man.

He’s not going to be quite as attentive, and he’s not looking for love. They have taken themselves out of the arena to avoid getting hurt. They have hardened themselves.

They seem to not text or call as much, and are alright with not being around you all the time. He loves being on his own and doing his own thing, with the occasional hang out with a friend.

This Pisces guy probably has a lot of emotional baggage that you wouldn’t want to dig into. If you are trying to get this type of Pisces man to get into a relationship, he’s going to resist.

You’ll likely find it difficult to relate to him and lure him into love. It would take a miracle to get a guarded Pisces man to love again. He just isn’t in that mind frame, and he’s in deep need of healing.

If he doesn’t work on his own healing, he’ll continue to be closed off and stay that way. Can you get this type of guy to go from a friend with benefits into a loving relationship? It’s not likely. 

The Truth About Sex With A Pisces “Friend”

The Truth About Sex With A Pisces “Friend”

The sex that comes along with a friend with benefit situation with Pisces man isn’t likely to be nearly as sensual and gratifying as it would be with a Pisces man in love. 

The Pisces man in love will go above and beyond to please you, whereas a “friend” will not. He will get what he desires and then move on. He isn’t concerned with giving you the very best.

He basically isn’t himself. Pisces men in relationships tend to be very attentive, and want to please you because that pleases them. If you take the love element out, he’s just not “there.”

While he could still be good in bed, he simply isn’t as great as he would be if he were in love. If you’re finding that he’s lacking in this department as a friend with benefits, this is why.

And trying to convert him from sex buddy into a loving and committed partner will be very difficult. He hasn’t attached to you, and if he isn’t feeling it then you’ll never get his best in the bedroom.

I would like to add that if he has a sign that makes him more sensual, such as Scorpio or Cancer (fellow water signs), he may be able to deliver a better-quality session (and finish!).

However, unless he already has a secret crush on you, he isn’t likely to develop the talents of making hot passionate love with you. Keep that in mind if you are exploring this type of relationship. 

Can You Convert Friend With Benefits With A Pisces Man Into Love?

If you’ve read this far, then you probably already figured out the answer. Most Pisces men are not capable of such a relationship, as they do tend to fall in love with the person that they attempt this with.

If he already has feelings for you secretly and never told you, you can simply tell him you have feelings for you and he will be thrilled. Fess up and just maybe you’ll get what you’re after!

In the event that he hasn’t had feelings for you in that way, then he’s probably not going to develop them just because you’re spending a little time with him and having sex. He isn’t typical for the Pisces guy.

You’re more likely to develop anxiety or resentment when he doesn’t seem to want to commit. You cannot get a broken man to commit – and if you do, he’s not going to provide you with the love you really want.

To go down the right road with a Pisces man, you really need to cultivate more than friendship from the get go, otherwise things will get complicated. The Pisces man either falls in love or backs away.

Swaying him to go from friend with benefits to a full-fledged relationship is next to impossible. It takes a very rare type (as per aspects of his chart) that can convince him to do this!

Read next: The Type Of Woman A Pisces Man Falls For And Must Chase

Final Thoughts

My suggestion to you is this: either tell your Pisces man right away that you really want more with him, or don’t get involved with a friend with benefits situation. It’s a very rare success to develop something more once you’ve found yourself in this situation!

If you had a crush on him and got involved in this set up thinking you would get him to be more over time, you’re probably wrong. If he hasn’t shown you that he’s open to it, then he just isn’t. 

I know it may sound discouraging, but take this as caution before you would take your relationship to a friends with benefits situation – now you know that this is not the way to go with the Pisces man if you’re wanting something more from him in the end!

Pisces men are dreamers and lovers, which causes them fall for women very quickly. They practically know instantly if they want to be with someone or not. And if they choose friendship, then they don’t want more than that.

The best thing you can do is to figure out his birth chart, if you can. Then you will find out if he has aspects that render him capable of falling in love with you out of friendship or not. 

If he does actually have a Moon, Rising sign, or Venus that indicates he is able to fall in love with a “friend,” then by all means, tell him what you want! He’ll let you know if he’s into it or not. 

Show him you’re his dream lover and partner that he really wants. If he really sees it and feels it then a miracle can happen. Otherwise, I’d advise not having a friend with benefits relationship with Pisces.

Did you successfully get a Pisces man to go from friend with benefits to love relationship? Tell me how you did it! I’d love to know. 

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

And to find out more about the sweet and sensual Pisces man, check out my blog right here: Pisces Man Secrets.

Wishing you all the luck of the universe.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



2 thoughts on “How To Go From Friends With Benefits To An Exclusive Relationship With A Pisces Man

  1. I have been seeing this Pisces man since early last year(as friends with benefits). He’s very guarded as you’ve mentioned and its not until recently that I have started to see his more romantic, fun side though I can still tell he is kind of holding back.
    A colleague of his told me that he got really hurt in a previous relationship and I remember him once mentioning that he has trust issues. We see each other like twice in a month though sometimes there are breaks in between (mostly initiated by him).
    Early this year I noticed something at his place that pointed to him having a girlfriend and when I asked, he apparently does have a girlfriend who I believe he has being seeing for a while now. I still met up with him after that because honestly our sexual chemistry is insane (I’m a virgo if that helps) and I’m struggling to let go since we’ve been seeing each other for so long now.
    I was okay with our arrangement since I wasn’t looking to date but now that I have seen this other side of him I keep thinking, what if? because we actually do have a lot of chemistry. However, I feel like whenever he feels like he may be getting too close he pulls back and I also don’t want to get my hopes up considering he is seeing someone now.
    Please Advise.

    1. Hi Hailey!

      Wait a minute… he doesn’t want to have a relationship so he has a friends with benefits thing with you BUT he’s seeing someone new? I hate to say it but he’s not interested in you for more than what you have. If he did, he wouldn’t be seeing anyone. Not to say he’d be committed but at the very least, he wouldn’t be getting involved with someone else. These types of relationships are designed for the two to enjoy time but not have strings. He just created strings with someone else. I think maybe it’s a good idea you check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. It could help you understand the mind of a Pisces better. I truly wish you the best but please do what is right for you. Be happy!

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