When A Pisces Man Says He Loves You (Will He Say I Love You First?)

by Anna Kovach Astrologer, relationship astrologer
When a Pisces man says he loves you, does he actually mean it or is he just throwing the three little words around as a tool of manipulation?

“A Pisces man says he loves me…” is a comment I often receive from my clients as they wonder if their Pisces man is telling the truth. These sensitive souls feel things quite deeply, and when they do, they express it when they are in the moment. 

When a Pisces man says he loves you, he does mean it, but he also isn’t very consistent as his emotions and moods change from one moment to the next. There is no guessing how he might feel now versus tomorrow. 

If you are wondering will a Pisces man say I love you first, well, the short answer is yes, he will. However, being with a Pisces man isn’t always straightforward and there are certain things you need to understand about him. 

Are you wondering what it means when a Pisces man says he loves you? Well, then you have come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out what it means when a Pisces man says I love you first.

When A Pisces Man Says He Loves You — Should You Trust Him?

When a Pisces man is in love, there is peace in the world. This man is one of those signs who really gets off on romance and being in love. He is someone who wants to feel a deep connection and feel close to someone else.

A Pisces man wants to love and he often does, but not always super consistently. It is easy for him to meet someone and fall in love because he recognizes the good in everyone, but it isn’t always that he is consistent with his feelings.

Yes, when he tells you how he feels about you he is probably telling you the truth, but this doesn’t mean he is going to experience the same truth tomorrow. A Pisces man says and does what he feels, he doesn’t play by the same rules as everyone else.

So yes, you can trust him when he says he loves you, but this comes with a caveat. You need to understand that your Pisces man is a water sign, and he flows, he doesn’t stay stagnant or in one place for too long.

Read also: Pisces Man In Bed — The Complete Guide To Pisces Man Sextrology

Will A Pisces Man Say I Love You First? Or Should I Express My Feelings First?

Most Pisces men are very sensitive and emotional, but because life can be quite hard most of them have also learned to shut down and not to be so trusting of love because they know that love can be quite painful.

So just because a Pisces man is a Pisces doesn’t necessarily mean that they are going to say I love you first. There is a lot that might be preventing him from being vulnerable and open with his feelings, especially because he is so afraid of getting hurt.

You need to encode his love language to know if he is inevitably falling in love with you. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Pisces Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

Although it might be scary to say I love you first to a man, sometimes with a Pisces guy it is better that you do it first because there is a good chance that he is too afraid to say it himself. Opening up his heart means being vulnerable and with that, there is a chance of getting hurt.

My only advice is that you don’t put a lot of pressure on him to say it back to you as this will just make him run away. Just tell him how you feel and be chilled about it. He won’t say it back if you have this expectation of him.

Check here to learn what a Pisces man likes and dislikes in a woman <<

How To Tell A Pisces Man You Love Him

Maybe you’re at a loss for words and are scared to say anything at all. Don’t be! If he is showing you how he feels, you have nothing to worry about. Telling a Pisces man how you feel should be exciting!

He will tell you if he’s not there yet with you if you tell him you love him. If he feels as though he is getting there, though, or will soon, he will tell you that too.

A Pisces man won’t give up on you if you tell him you love him before he feels ready to say it. Not if he deeply cares for you. Even if he’s not in love yet but cares a lot, he’ll stick it out.

If you want to test the waters, say something like “I think I may be in danger of falling for you.” It tells him how you feel, but it doesn’t fully take the plunge.

That also gives him the opportunity to beat you to it if he feels that way too. If he doesn’t, he’ll let you know with his reaction.

Here’s more on how to show a PIsces man that you truly love him <<

What If A Pisces Man Says He Likes You, But Won’t Say ‘I Love You?’

There are many reasons a Pisces man won’t say I love you even if he does or admits that he likes you a lot. One of the biggest reasons is usually because he has been burned in the past and is deathly afraid of getting heartbroken again. 

This fear leads to all kinds of problems from being afraid of commitment to serial dating, to never allowing himself to truly fall in love ever again. It is also possible that his childhood is affecting the way he is in relationships now. 

He may have experienced his parents getting a divorce and because of this, it has shattered his fantasies of what it means to be in love with someone. He doesn’t want to go through the same pain he witnessed his parents go through. 

Not telling the woman he loves that he loves her is just a way the Pisces man tries to protect himself. He knows what it feels like to lose himself in a woman and that can terrify him. Pisces aren’t good with boundaries, and sometimes they put up these hard walls because they don’t know how else to protect themselves.

This can feel really painful and heartbreaking as a woman knowing that you love this person but their heart has just been through too much to allow himself to actually feel anything for someone else, even if it means missing out on true love. 

You will notice that some Pisces men will go on being serial daters going from one woman to the next because this is just easier for them than actually experiencing what it means to have deep and true love with one woman, even if this is what the Pisces man desperately desires.

Do Pisces men cheat? And how to know if a Pisces man is cheating on you? Check out here <<

Here’s How To Get A Pisces Man To Say ‘I Love You’

  • Be Patient. Pisces men don’t deal very well with pressure and feeling like they are being rushed into something. He will come around, especially if you are patient with him. If he can see that you are consistent and someone he can rely on, then eventually he will realize that you aren’t going to hurt him. 
  • Be Yourself. Authenticity is very important for the Pisces man and he wants to be with a woman who can be herself. Don’t pretend to be someone else because your Pisces man will fish this out and be turned off by this. The more authentic you are, the more likely your Pisces man will feel safe enough with you to allow himself to fall in love. 
  • Be Compassionate. Empathy and compassion are very important to a Pisces man. They want to be with a woman who exemplifies these attributes. If you show that you are kind and caring your Pisces man is way more likely to open up to you. 
  • Show Him You Love Him. Show your Pisces man that you love him through your actions. Show him what it feels like to be loved by you, this will soften his heart and hopefully make him realize that he feels the same.

How Long Does It Take A Pisces Man To Say ‘I Love You?’

The Pisces man is a romantic at heart and he’s always looking for his soul mate that he can spend the rest of his days with. He gets excited about finding love and falling in love. This can sometimes make him dive in quicker than he should.

In the beginning, a Pisces man falls very quickly and acts like a typical romantic love story. He’s excited, his stomach has butterflies, he is enthralled, and he’d do anything for the woman he’s into. He may very well say “I love you” when he doesn’t actually KNOW for sure.

The truth is, he probably feels like he’s in love at that moment and he absolutely does believe it. He means it too! He may not mean it a week or two later when things progress and he starts to learn who the other person is.

Once his reality is shattered by his illustrious partner being a normal human being with needs and wants that may not line up with his, he will lose the luster of the fresh and shiny being in love.

That means a Pisces man can fall out of love just as quickly as he fell into it. Unless it’s the real deal, he can move past it and find someone else. The thing is, he will always hold a special place in his heart for that person no matter what.

When he truly does fall in love though and it’s real, it lasts for the rest of his life. He will fall probably several times before he finds someone that he is patient enough to get to know and be certain she is the person he’ll be with forever.

No More Sleepless Nights About Your Pisces Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Pisces man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Pisces guys. I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her.

She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him. Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy. 

It took a LOT of work.

She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<

And it worked!! 

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Pisces man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

Go here now to see how to speak your Pisces man’s love language. 



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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

One thought on “When A Pisces Man Says He Loves You (Will He Say I Love You First?)

  1. I have been dating this apices man for 6 years some of it was long distance . We stay in the same home town and when I go home he was always showing his love. Well I in March of this year he text me and said he had company for three weeks and it was a friend of family. But this woman is back at his house again. We still talk on the phone and he still tells me he loves me. But last week when I went home and went to his place act all funny toward me., and he did not want me to spend the night, but he was calling every day on the phone. This is very nerve wrecking for me, and I have decide to distance myself from him. Now the woman is back at his house for two more weeks he text and told me that and he will call when he can. I did not even reply to his text. I am not going to play his game.

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