Pisces Men are as elusive and slippery as fish — just as their symbol suggests! To get him to stick around (and maybe even fall in love) you need the right questions to ask a Pisces man. Read on for the top questions that melt his heart.
Pisces men—you either love them or hate them! They’re gentle, sweet and oh-so-charming, but they can be hard to pin down. Here one day and gone the next, I like to say, with their magnetic sensitivity often leaving quite an impression!
However, the Pisces man falls in love easily. He has such a huge capacity for devotion that it just takes a little effort to get him to go gaga for you! And, when armed with just the right questions designed to help him open up about his feelings (usually so close to the surface but hard for him to show), you’ll leave him wanting much more of you!
Pisces men are all about romance, creativity, and devotion. They are as adaptable as a chameleon, but there are a few core character traits that define these ethereal guys. And when you tap into these characteristics, you’ll soon see that there are some things that they all have in common!
I’ve worked with countless ladies hoping to win the heart of a Pisces man. Here are the top seven topics of conversation—in my experience as a relationship astrologer—that can bring the two of you that much closer.
What Do Pisces Men Like To Talk About?
Like I mentioned above, a Pisces man is really creative. He usually has a fond interest in the arts and has a few creative skills under his belt. Pisces men are often involved in some kind of artistic endeavor.
Be that with music, poetry, or even painting. Somehow, he lets his feelings show through the things he creates. This is often his passion and something he really enjoys talking about. His creative hobby is often the thing that will light up his face and make him excited to share.
There is also a side to him that is extremely spiritual, and he often will have a keen interest in some kind of spiritual practice. This is another one of his favorite topics to cover. A Pisces man loves to talk about the meaning of life.
What To Talk About With A Pisces Man
When you first start dating a Pisces man, you might think, “what to talk about with a Pisces man?” But actually, you may be pleasantly surprised. A Pisces man is an open-minded man, and he has a variety of topics that pique his interest.
The Pisces man indulges in everything from arts, religion, politics, spirituality, and philosophy. No topic is too weird to broach with this man, and I bet you he has an opinion on everything you mention. A little tip I like to give is to look at his social media and see what he seems to post often.
This should give you a good indication about what a Pisces man likes to talk about, and then ask him questions about the things you know nothing about and see if your Pisces man can teach you a thing or two.
He is a fantastic teacher, so why not be his perfect student?
7 Questions To Ask A Pisces Man That Will Make Him Closer To You
There are a couple of questions you can ask a Pisces man that will make him feel special and cared for. This guy simply loves talking about his passions, especially when someone else takes an interest in them.
It will mean a lot to your Pisces guy if you take an interest in the things he cares about. This will definitely set you apart from the rest. After all, a Pisces man wants a deep bond and connection with the woman he is with, and one of the best ways to get to this point is through shared interests.
1. Ask Him About What Music He Loves
Pisces is well-known as the most musical of all the signs. He is often a musician himself, or he may just have a collection to rival the most avid audiophiles out there.
Music helps the Pisces guy to deal with uncomfortable feelings that he seldom expresses or deals with verbally.
When you’re with a Pisces guy, take the time to ask him about his favorite band or style of music. Go even further and ask him if he plays an instrument and if he’d be keen to teach you (wink, wink!). Volunteer to listen to his latest songs or albums, or exchange Spotify profiles.
He will definitely come back for more! This is one of the things Pisces guys love to talk about most.
2. Ask Him What He Believes In
This is one spiritual sign! Most Pisces people have some kind of faith or at least a belief in something bigger than them, even if it’s as simple (and as profound) as nature or the ocean (which he loves, by the way!). One of the best questions to ask a Pisces man is about his spirituality.
Offer some of your own insights and beliefs if you’re a spiritual gal. This is a man that you can freely talk to about yoga, meditation, reiki, or any other “new-age” modality you’ve explored. He will just love the closeness that comes from sharing a belief together or learning about yours.
He may even have very strong Christian beliefs or be invested in another mainstream religion. Any faith that emphasizes love at the center, as well as forgiveness and being rescued, will be appealing to this sensitive soul.
If you struggle to find ideas on how to bond with him on a deeper level, make sure you check my Pisces Love Language guide.
3. Ask Him Where He Wants to Travel
In traditional Astrology, Jupiter, planet of travel, was the ruler of Pisces. He still has some say over this expansive sign, and you’ll often find that Pisces men are born for a life of travel!
Pisces men are born travelers. They may even combine two loves—such as surfing and music—with traveling, which is basically their perfect life.
Ask him where he’s gone—and where he wants to go. Maybe you’ll find that you share a yearning to go to the same place, or that you could open each other’s minds to new possibilities.
This is a win-win if you’re someone that also loves to hit the road and see new places!
4. Ask Him About His Dreams
Pisces is an ultra-dreamy sign—not just in looks, but also in his character!
He loves to fantasize about the future, and many Pisces men are visionaries—sometimes to the point of being preternaturally intuitive!
Whether you’re hanging out or chatting via text, take a moment to ask him what his dreams, wishes, and hopes are for the future. Where does he see himself or the world going, and what is his greatest dream in life?
He’ll love that you are interested in something so close to his heart, and he may get quite poetic! It’s easy to be swept away by him, just as he will be by you! Taking an interest in his dreams is by far one of the best questions to ask a Pisces man. This will help the two of you grow much closer to one another.
5. Ask Him What (or Where) His Favorite Escape Is
Pisces is a sign that craves escape from the mundane.
Some of these escapes can be unhealthy—such as too much boozing or even drug abuse. If that’s the case, stay away, ladies. He can be toxic when he’s not conscious of his bad habits.
But, if you can see that’s not an issue for him, ask him what his favorite healthy escapes are. Maybe it’s nature, music, gaming (a favorite amongst Pisces men!), getting creative, surfing, or reading.
He’ll definitely have at least one way to switch off, and he’ll be eager to share it with you so that you can share his treasured experiences with him and escape together.
6. Ask Him About His Past
This is one sign that’s not afraid to talk about his past. In fact, he embraces it as part of who is he and what he’s learned from it.
Pisces men are often able to recall the past in great detail. You’ll be spellbound by his storytelling, and in the process, you’ll find out that much more about him.
And he’ll certainly want to know about you, too—it’s a perfect path to bonding.
7. Ask Him How He Feels
Because Pisces is a water sign, they’re all about emotions and feelings. However, Pisces men—and women—often either avoid difficult emotions or drown in them. When he’s sad, he’s deeply sad, and when he’s happy, he’s ecstatic!
This man can be moody. Sometimes, he’s not even aware of his feelings. Asking him how he’s doing on a regular basis in a gentle, empathetic way can bring him so much closer to you and fast-track the two of you to a deep trust.
Sharing feelings together will open up new possibilities for vulnerability, which is the basis for any relationship.
And when you’re vulnerable, you’re able to connect more easily—and that often leads to love!
Read next: 7 Pisces Man Traits That Will Help You Understand His Behavior
If you listen to dating coaches, you can lose your Pisces man forever
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches.
They wanted to know if it would work with their Pisces man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Pisces.
You see, Pisces men are VERY different than men of other signs.
And if you use standard dating advice with a Pisces, it can backfire.
He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you.
Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.
He’ll be wrapped around your finger…
And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches!
They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Pisces is NOT like other men… at ALL.
So go here now to find out the specific things your Pisces man needs to hear to melt his heart.