If you are wondering how to ask a Pisces man out on a date, it shouldn’t be too tough—these guys are romantic at heart and will jump at a chance for love! However, they can also have their heads in the clouds, so your task is to gently direct their attention towards you.
No matter how independent you are, it’s lovely to have a man chase you, to desire you, to want you. Sometimes, we just don’t want to make that first move—and staying in our feminine energy in that way occasionally can feel empowering.
And the truth is, in my experience as a relationship astrologer, many men like to be the ones taking charge. Pisces men are a little different. They are among the more feminine signs, and they won’t mind if a woman makes that first move.
They also can be so in touch with their sensitive side that they simply don’t know how to pursue you or that you are interested in them. That’s when a little astrological help is in order.
Here are a few ways to ask a Pisces man out on the date you are dreaming of…
Should I Ask A Pisces Man Out? (4 Undeniable Hints)
He emotionally Connects With You
Pisces is always looking for his soul mate and that means he won’t take much else seriously. If he senses that your connection is filled with spirituality, compassion, and passion then by all means; continue with your quest to the Pisces man’s heart.
That’s what it’s all about. His heart wants to be connected with someone else’s. Sex is never just sex for him. It’s a deeper intimacy than most people can imagine so when it comes to dating; Pisces won’t waste too much time if you are not the one.
He Is Honest With You
Trust is a major issue for a Pisces man and he will only confide his most deeply hidden shameful secrets to someone he completely trusts and loves.
When he does this, you need to take him seriously and guard his confidence in you as you would your own life. You need to create the conditions where he will feel secure enough to bare his heart and soul, so don’t react to his mixed signals – just stay interested and available to him and this will coax him out of his shell.
He’s Taking Care Of You
One of the ways Pisces man expresses his emotions for you is by taking care of you. You’re his darling. He wants to make you feel how important you are to him.
If he carefully listens about the things you want and desire, he will try to tend to your needs even if he considers you a friend. He will put you on that pedestal and make sure you have everything you want or need if he can provide it. It makes him feel like a man deserving of you.
He truly wants to make sure you know that he knows how special you are. This is a very caring and tender man. If you can see it, obviously you can elevate things to the next level and ask him out on a date!
You may also want to read: Undeniable Signs A Pisces Man Is Falling In Love With You
If your Pisces man asks you what kind of goals or dreams you have in mind for yourself, that is a sign he is interested in you. Eventually, you’ll notice that you two are getting on the same page with your goals or path for the future.
He wants to co-exist and be part of each other’s plans for the future. That also means that he will start talking about things he’d like to do with you going forward. This is the love of a Pisces man.
7 Tips To Ask A Pisces Man Out
1. Show Him You’re Interested
Firstly, he has to know that you’re actually interested. Pisces men are usually very intuitive, so they tend to pick up on your vibes. But sometimes they don’t, being so wrapped up in their own fantasy worlds.
So, if you want your Pisces man to make a first move, let him know you wouldn’t say no! That you would be totally open to dating. Drop hints, tell him about places you’d like to visit, and activities you’d like to do. Don’t put major pressure on, as Pisces men cannot handle pressure, but just suggest it in a friendly way. He should catch on quite quickly!
2. Find a Way to Emotionally Connect
In order to really get into the heart and soul of a Pisces man, you need to connect emotionally with him. You could start by asking him how he feels about a certain subject, let’s say spirituality, for example. Or how he’s feeling today, or how his day went. How he feels about his boss.
Emotionally connecting will make him feel safe and close to you, and the closer he feels, the more likely he is to want to take that a bit further! Besides, how often do you get a guy who actually wants to open up emotionally? This is your chance to nab your dream fella!
3. Drop In on a Yoga Class or Surf Session
Sharing activities brings people closer—there’s nothing like a shared experience to create connection.
It’s very likely that your sensitive, water-loving Pisces guy does yoga or spends time surfing or bodyboarding. With just a little bit of investigation, you can find out his interests and make a sneaky plan to just “accidentally” drop in on a session.
Maybe you’ll “bump into him” at his yoga studio, or in the sea. Is this creepy? No, of course not. Unless it becomes stalker behavior, of course.
Just be honest about it—tell him you know he’s interested in the activity and wanted to join him. This could be a sweet story about your initiative that you might come to tell your children later!
4. Send Him a Poem or Inspirational Quotes
Pisces is a sign that often loves poetry. He’s emotional, after all, and he usually has his own poetic side that most people don’t know about.
If you’re chatting via text or any digital method, a sweet thing to do that may get him to ask you out is sending a poem that has touched your heart. It doesn’t have to be too mushy, but it can be—these guys aren’t the types to laugh at you or make you feel bad for sharing your feelings!
If you’re not ready to share a poem, then simply try out an inspirational quote, or a spiritual mantra—something that has a bit of meaning and depth.
Pisces men are all about enjoying these sorts of things, and it’s a good way for them to communicate in general. He’ll love that you’re on the same page.
5. Find Out His Spiritual Interests
Many Pisces men can be very spiritual. They may have traveled extensively to interesting places that are sacred in some way, or perhaps they’re into a specific form of meditation.
Explore with him if he’s done yoga or if he meditates, and see how far he’s gone. Share some of your own experiences. It’ll definitely get the wheels turning in his head and help him to see that you are someone he could be compatible with.
That date he asks you on may even have this component woven into it.
6. Suggest Having Drinks
Most Pisces men enjoy drinking. He enjoys a little escape, and he won’t often turn down a glass of wine or a delicious microbrew.
One way to get your Pisces man to ask you out is to simply drop a hint about having a casual drink. Mention your favorite watering hole, and see if he takes the bait!
This is usually a fool-proof way to get him out the door and hang out with you. Plus, this feels pressure-free, which is what the Pisces is looking for, anyway!
Pisces men live for their music. They are often musical themselves and may play an instrument (or three!). They use music as a way to release and process their strong feelings, which they often can’t express in words.
Sharing your playlists on Spotify or some other platform is a fantastic way to get him interested in you and potentially find common ground. He loves discovering new music, and he loves a woman who likes music and is willing to share it.
For many Pisces men, this is the very first step in starting any romantic relationship. Remember those boys who made mixtapes for you at school? That’s your Pisces guy!
What To Talk To A Pisces Man On The First Date (Questions To Ask)
Ask Him About Religion And Spirituality
Let’s be real, Pisces live in the clouds half the time, and we all know what’s up there! They have a serious inclination towards feeling closer to a higher power.
You can always ask him about his sense of connection to something bigger than ourselves. Devine topic! He may belong to a specific religion, or maybe they just meditate and talk to the Universe in general. Either way, he is always trying to get a little closer to his version of Nirvana.
Talking to him about your take on spirituality or asking his point of view can be a great way to bond and get closer as a couple as far as the Pisces is concerned!
Ask Him About His Emotions
Next to Cancer, Pisces is the most sensitive man in the Zodiac. If you’re out on a date, notice his emotional cues. Does he have his arms folded? Does he seem “crabby” or grumpy? Or is he open and in a wacky, crazy mood?
Show your empathy by letting him know, subtly, that you have picked up on how he’s feeling.
If you’re unsure, just ask him how he’s feeling today and if he’s had a good week. He’s just waiting for someone to show him the same care that he shows everyone else! When he sees that you’re intuitive, he’ll also see you care about him enough to read him—and that will get him talking!
Connect Over His Favorite Music
Oh, how a Pisces man loves music! Take a walk down his music styles when he was growing up. Let him share his maturing through the world of music. Question him about his favorite bands, music styles, rhythm.
Ask him if he recalls how things changed for him thanks to the music and what music he listens to depending on his mood.
The music has to be a Pisces man’s ultimate favorite topic besides spirituality. He’ll be thrilled to bond with you over similar tastes in music, and you may be surprised to find how many things you have in common. This is a winner!
Ask Him Where He Wants to Travel
In traditional Astrology, Jupiter, planet of travel, was the ruler of Pisces. He still has some say over this expansive sign, and you’ll often find that Pisces men are born for a life of travel!
Pisces men are born travelers. They may even combine two loves—such as surfing and music—with traveling, which is basically their perfect life.
Ask him where he’s gone—and where he wants to go. Maybe you’ll find that you share a yearning to go to the same place, or that you could open each other’s minds to new possibilities.
This is a win-win if you’re someone that also loves to hit the road and see new places!
Ask Him About His Dreams
Pisces is an ultra-dreamy sign—not just in looks, but also in his character! He loves to fantasize about the future, and many Pisces men are visionaries—sometimes to the point of being preternaturally intuitive!
Whether you’re hanging out or chatting via text, take a moment to ask him what his dreams, wishes, and hopes are for the future. Where does he see himself or the world going, and what is his greatest dream in life?
He’ll love that you are interested in something so close to his heart, and he may get quite poetic! It’s easy to be swept away by him, just as he will be by you! Taking an interest in his dreams is by far one of the best questions to ask a Pisces man. This will help the two of you grow much closer to one another.
How To Ask A Pisces Man Out Over Text
If you are wondering, Should I ask a Pisces man out?, please note that Pisces doesn’t have a ton of initiative. They tend to just go with the flow of life and wait for things to happen to them. He can find peace in the simplest things, so there is no need to strive and work hard if he’s cool and calm already. Will a Pisces man ask you out? Not if you move faster than him!
Pisces men are known for being emotionally sensitive, so it’s important to establish a level of comfort and trust before making your move.
This can be done by engaging in meaningful conversations and showing genuine interest in his thoughts and feelings. Use romantic and heartfelt language because Pisces men appreciate romance and emotional depth, so when asking him out, choose your words carefully.
Pisces men appreciate someone who takes initiative and puts thought into planning. When asking a Pisces man out over text, suggest a specific activity or date idea that aligns with his interests and preferences. For example, if he’s a fan of nature, you could propose a hike in a nearby park or suggest going out for a cup of coffee in the outdoor seating.
So give him time to respond. Pisces men are known for their introspective nature and tendency to take their time with decisions. When asking a Pisces man out over text, be patient and give him time to respond.
Just know that when he texts you, it means something to him. As long as he’s still into you or in love with you, he will absolutely get back to you. Your timing and his may not always be the same, and that’s alright.
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If Your Pisces Man Pulls Away, DON’T Do This…
I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Pisces man is AMAZING when they are in person with him… So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!
But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.
It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.
“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”
“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”
And most importantly…
“What can I DO about this?”
First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation.
- Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
- Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
- Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
- Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
- Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.
So what SHOULD you do instead?
- Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
- Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Pisces men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
- Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or even a day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
- Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
- When your Pisces man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.
Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.
I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Pisces man is pulling away.
And there is no need for you to do that. Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with a Pisces man’s heart through text messages…
Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology, he WON’T be pulling away anymore. And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Pisces man through text anymore.
Sending you love,
Your sister and relationsgip astrologer,
Anna Kovach x