If you are wondering how to get a Pisces man to commit, know that Pisces man commitment is something exceptional you can have with just a little effort.
Pisces men are wonderfully sensitive and intuitive. They are the dreamers of the Zodiac, the men who see all possibilities when it comes to romance, the men who believe that with true love anything is possible.
Their love is gentle and feels like a soothing wave. Their love is poetic and full of romance. If you want to be swept off your feet, then dating a Pisces man is the perfect option for you.
But sometimes these fantastical and whimsical men can be downright slippery and hard to pin down. A Pisces man is full of contradictions, on the one hand, he wants an all-consuming deep kind of love, but on the other hand, he wants the freedom to explore and be on his own.
So how do you get a Pisces man to commit to you? Well, I’m glad you asked that question. Continue reading as I give you all the subtle tips and tricks to help you in the process of getting a Pisces man to settle down and commit to you!
Pisces Man And Commitment — The Basics
A Pisces man can be a fickle creature. He often goes where the wind takes him. Because of this, he can be a slippery fish to hold on to. On top of that, he can be hard to understand due to how introverted Pisces can be.
The moment that a Pisces man becomes more committed is when he knows he’s in love with you. He will reach out more, text more, and try to spend lots of time with you. This is how to know that a Pisces man secretly likes you.
Not only that, but he will talk about very real topics instead of just small talk. He will tell you more about his deep personal secrets. Basically, anything you want to know, he’ll talk to you about it. This is how you will know that he wants to be committed to you.
Pisces men are known for their emotional and calm nature, but when it comes to commitment They tick all the boxes, especially if you are a woman who enjoys romance, sensuality, stability, and empathy in a relationship.
How Long Does It Take For A Pisces Man To Commit?
Well, a Pisces man is slow to commit because they are emotional and sensitive. He takes his time and he is not in a rush. What seems like forever to you, is a very short space of time for the patient Pisces man.
Winning the Pisces man’s heart and getting him to commit isn’t that difficult but the biggest thing is not trying to push him, or make him feel like he has to make a choice “right now”. That will make him shut down and pull away from you.
You may also want to read: Why Are Pisces Men So Confusing And Not Straight Up About Their Feelings?
When A Pisces Man Is Ready To Commit — Here’s How To Tell
A Pisces man will feel close to you if you are doing everything together. This is one of the indications that he wants to commit to you. Include him in all your plans, and make him feel safe and trustworthy.
If you find that your Pisces guy is suddenly opening up about his innermost feelings or talking about personal information, he probably is into you and you should feel loved.
If you truly care for him and you want to get to the next level with him, you’ll want to be patient for his sake and for yours. So, if a Pisces man commits to you, then you’ll be really happy you waited.
The more calm you are with him when dealing with emotions, the more he can see himself having a life and settling down with you.
How To Get A Pisces Man To Commit (7 Clever Ways)
Give Him Compliments & Let Him Know How Much He Means To You
In case you are wondering how to compliment a Pisces man, please keep in mind that a Pisces man can be rather shy and unassuming. He doesn’t like to draw too much attention to himself, and his ego is pretty much nonexistent. But because of this, he needs extra affirmations that you like him and you are interested in him.
Otherwise, he might think you have someone else you’re more interested in. Giving him compliments is a great way for him to associate you with good and positive feelings. A Pisces man needs a lot of reassurance about the way you feel about him.
It’s not because he’s needy or has no self-esteem, he just wouldn’t ever want to assume the way you feel about him. So, it’s much better to just be obvious from the get-go that you have a special place in your heart for him.
Being unsure about your feelings towards him is a little too confusing for him. He already has too much noise going on in his head, and if he can’t make out that you have feelings for him, he’s unlikely to pursue it any further.
Be Vulnerable With Him
A Pisces man is extremely sensitive and empathetic. His emotional world is rich and full. This is why he enjoys talking about the deeper aspects of life, he needs depth in his relationships. He isn’t the type of guy to feel satisfied by shallow encounters.
He wants something more, and it’s a necessity for him to know that the woman he wants to commit to has more to her than it might seem. Your Pisces wants to know about the highs and lows of your life, the struggles, and the victories.
He adores hearing about the events in your life that have impacted you the most. This is important for him to feel like he can actually get close to you. Having a deep emotional connection with his woman is vital to him.
And this all starts with the two of you when you feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with one another. So, if you want a Pisces man to settle down and commit to you, it’s important that you show him your deeper side. This will make him realize you’re looking for more than just something casual.
Be Responsible And Someone He Can Depend On
A Pisces man is very free-flowing, he doesn’t really live life according to a plan. He just goes with the flow and sees where life is going to take him. This is why it’s quite good for him to have a partner who is a little more responsible than he is.
He needs someone in his life who is “together” and can help him get a little more organized. It’s nice to live a life of spontaneity as he does, but he also needs some kind of structure and order for him to follow.
A Pisces man might not realize this, but he’s really looking for someone who can help him feel safe and secure in his life. You can help him feel this way by encouraging him to follow more of a schedule and a plan.
Your responsible side will surely start to rub off on him and he’ll come to recognize that you are someone who he can depend on. He’s quite used to people flaking on him, so when he sees that you are reliable, he’ll feel a lot more comfortable with the idea of settling down and committing to you.
Give Him Space And Allow Him His Freedom
Pisces men need a lot of alone time to deal with their inner world. There is a lot going on with him on a day-to-day basis, especially with the number of emotions he feels, it is quite normal for him to want to get away from everything and everyone.
So, there will often be times when he chooses to isolate away from everyone and take a lot of time for himself to figure out what he is feeling and how he can deal with it. When he goes all quiet and retreats, you can’t take this personally.
You need to give him the space to figure out what he is feeling. If you put more pressure on him to give you attention or get insecure because he’s not spending enough time with you, you might really push him away.
So, this is one of the successful ways how to make a Pisces man commit to you.
Make Him Understand That He Can Trust You
It may come as no surprise, but someone as sensitive as your Pisces has definitely been hurt in the past. This can make it quite difficult for him to feel like he can trust and open up to love once again.
He might have decided to close off his heart after a really bad breakup. His extreme sensitivity is probably one of his greatest assets, but it also causes a great deal of pain when he trusts the wrong kind of people.
A Pisces man really struggles with betrayal, and this can often hold him back from allowing himself to be open to love. He may have come to associate love with pain, and this can be quite a big hump he needs to get over.
This is going to need a lot of patience and a deal of work on your part. The only thing you can really do is show him you’re different by being loyal and someone he can depend on. This might not be easy for you, but it will be worth it!
It would be good for you to show him that you’re 100% dedicated to the relationship and that you’re willing to work through any kind of relationship setbacks. Make sure he knows that you have no intention of abandoning him when things get a little tough in the relationship.
Here’s more on how to show a Pisces man that you love him.
Be Honest
A Pisces man may seem like one who you wouldn’t tell the truth to protect them. I actually am going to take this opportunity to make a much-needed distinction for Pisces men.
Despite the fact that they struggle to maintain their happiness when they aren’t allowed to separate themselves from pain, they actually really need to hear the truth.
First of all, a Pisces can sense the truth. This is why they are often seen as so sad! They know the true nature of the world and so they have to go to lengths in order to make living in it tolerable.
Because of this, it can be hard to feel comfortable telling Pisces the whole truth. Part of you wants to keep them protected from everything.
But if you don’t tell them what is on your mind, they will still sense your discomfort and blame themselves for your pain. In the end, hiding your emotions from them is just going to make them feel worse about themselves. Instead, learning how to comfort a Pisces man will strengthen the bond between you and him.
So as difficult as it can be, it’s very important to gently and kindly be truthful with a Pisces. They still are sensitive and so it is important to watch your tone when telling them lest they feel hurt. But at the end of the day, they will appreciate you for communicating to them your true emotions.
Let Him Be Understood
A Pisces man often feels deeply misunderstood. They are creatures that live in a dreamland, or at least they would very much like to. In a world full of hard and fast rules, deadlines, expectations, and limits, Pisces feels like an alien being.
Needless to say, if they find someone who truly ‘gets’ them, they are hooked for life – no going back. It’s so rare for them to be sympathized with and understood that they will become addicted to the feeling of being at home with someone else.
They are quite enigmatic beings. They are commonly the kindest souls but also can have high walls built up due to being hurt so much in the past. Pisces love people but also need to be alone.
If they find a partner who understands these seemingly opposing things about them then they will be so genuinely happy that they will not stray.
What To Do When A Pisces Man Is Afraid Of Commitment — Is He Worth It?
A Pisces man isn’t going to commit himself to just anyone, he has a big list of things that he expects from his partner and if he doesn’t feel that you have it, he isn’t going to waste his or your time by going into a relationship he feels half sure about.
However, all people can develop issues around commitment if they have somehow been traumatized perhaps by their childhood or previous relationship. But naturally, Pisces men would rather be in a relationship than not.
So slow down and find simple ways to show him that you are someone he can lean on. Perhaps it is making his lunch on the days you feel inspired or dropping off fresh flowers to liven up his place; every little thing you do to help the Pisces man feel more comfortable around you counts.
Read also: What To Do When A Pisces Man Doesn’t Want A Relationship
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Sending you love,
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Anna Kovach
Hey Anna,
Thanks for the updates however I feel defeated each other day I spend with my pisces man,one moment he acts cold and other moments he is all lovey dovey. I don’t understand why,need some help ?. Thank you ?
Hi Pamela!
I am so sorry to hear it’s been difficult for you and your Pisces guy to be on the same page. He’s a moody guy so it’s not surprising to hear this. There is a lot of things that you can do but he has to want to put in the effort as well otherwise it doesn’t go as well as you’d hope. I tell you what, you should check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. I think it will reveal a lot more for you to work with as far as what you can do from your side of this. I wish you nothing but the best!
Thank you for this insightful article
You have helped me understand much about my pisces man I am so happy with all your guidance