Hello Sweethearts, welcome to your guide for Pisces Man.
This is an important month because there is lots of potential to work on the intimate sphere of relationships before the hustle and bustle of the festive season gets underway and the mad end-of-year rush.
The planets are quite busy this month as all the personal planets are changing signs, plus we have the New Moon in Libra and Pluto goes direct Capricorn for the last time in any of our lifetimes. Now these transits are conducive to the deeper and more philosophical side of the relationship and you guys can both grow psychologically or achieve a greater psychic rapport.
This is a key time for important relationship decisions and you have to face these full on. Any tensions or repressed emotions tend to surface now and have to be dealt with honestly. In some cases, Pisces Man may be more receptive to deep and meaningful conversations or taking radical and courageous steps to improve your relationships, but also your financial future.
There is a great deal of determination within Pisces Man to walk away from bad situations or find solutions and so this is not a time when he’s likely to dither or procrastinate, he’s keen to make decisions and get right on with implementing.
Mercury enters Libra – 6th October
This is a suitable time to get a little deeper, dig into problems and seek solutions.. You shouldn’t skirt around problems or walk on eggshells, he’s a desire to purge and gain better understanding, so take advantage of this spell to clarify the relationship and broach subjects that you would usually steer clear of.
It’s an important time to discuss money and align spending priorities especially as we are entering such an expensive time of year.
In terms of dating, he’s more intense and he wants to draw you in, he’s often a little secretive and mysterious but what he really wants is to explore with you and he could try and test your loyalty or your depth. He’s quite open to things that others may find taboo, so push the envelope and be prepared to open up to him and suggest exotic conversations of an intimate or spiritual nature.
Venus enters Libra – 10th October
This transit is one of the most sexy for Pisces Man, he’s likely to become easily aroused, he enjoys intimacy and he’s very exclusive, he wants to devote time to the private aspects of your relationship. However, he’s also quite demanding and can go from hot to cold quite quickly as he’s emotionally volatile and it’s not always easy to please him. The problem right now is that although he’s passionate, he’s also quite sensitive and self-protective and thus he’s a little mysterious about the way he goes about getting what he wants.
So it’s important for you to relax him and reassure him.. Don’t give him reason to question your loyalty or commitment, the best way to seduce him is to let him know how much you value and respect him.
It’s quite important in new relationships to get an understanding on money issues, you want to begin to understand each other’s financial priorities and what that says about other priorities in their life. So while money and financial matters may seem like a mundane and materialistic concern, they often cover a multitude of ‘sins’ and once you uncover his attitudes and values according to his financial decisions, you will find an avenue to deeper aspects of his psychology.
Mars enters Scorpio – 13th October
This is an excellent time for challenges, don’t stand still as a couple. Inspire him and encourage him to find new avenues to explore, what turns him on right now is being expansive and dropping the act or the mask and just being himself.
He’s naturally an adventurous person but he’s also quite sensitive and adaptable which dilutes his power, so during this phase he should be competitive and you should encourage him to push himself in a new direction.
It’s important for you guys to be philosophical about any of your problems and issues as some things can only be resolved in time and what’s important is reaching an understanding rather than nailing everything down to some specific black-and-white issues.
Success in your relationship is about mutual support and respect, you cultivate love by being inspiring and helping him to attain a sense of personal power and a renewed understanding of his destiny. A shared vision of something intangible but philosophical or spiritual can bond you more than material aims.
Pluto goes direct in Capricorn – 11th October
This represents a time for clearing the deck for some different and more authentic goals and objectives. It’s important for him to reconnect with his integrity and forge a path that’s totally compatible with his true purpose.
As a couple choose carefully who you associate with and align yourselves with positive and truthful people who can bring light into your life and encourage a constructive and enlightening route ahead.
New Moon October – 14th October
An excellent time for a focus on the psychological dynamics in your relationship with Pisces Man. watch out for projection. Own your own issues and take responsibility for anything that you have each done no matter how painful.
Identity toxic influences and work harder to simplify your life and your relationship by getting rid of time wasting activities and people.
In new relationships, strive to be tolerant and work through differences with an emphasis on deeper understanding and avoiding blame.
Mercury enters Scorpio – 13th October
Be open-minded and expect the unexpected in your marriage or long-term relationship with Pisces. It’s hard to predict the outcome of anything you start right now and so discussions, arguments, debates or questions often fly off in a very different direction from what you could have imagined.
You are about to enter a new and rather unpredictable and unsettled phase in relationships, it’s unnerving in a way, but it’s also dynamic and fresh and offers a chance to do things differently and carve out a new more fulfilling, and more exciting path. One or both of you may begin to demand a little more freedom and yet the one demanding the freedom, which may be you, may not know quite what to do with it.
There is this stop-start motion, where things move forward and then back as there is a desire for change and yet a great deal of uncertainty about what the change should look like. It’s the start of an uncertain, rather experimental phase that should be embraced, so be excited about the positive change it can bring and go with it.
Theme of the month – Be alert and understand the subtleties of the relationship. There’s always more to Pisces Man than meets the eye and you must observe and interpret his behavior as he’s unwilling to be cross-questioned or asked anything directly.
Do – The new moon phase extends from the 14th of October to the 28th of October this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive.
The waxing phase is great for him using intuition, understanding dreams or working alone on artistic or musical goals. Good for writing him romantic love letters. Excellent for spiritual growth, dream analysis and using ESP. Going on retreats or charitable work is favored. Positive affirmations and creative visualization are successful. Dream themes and anger issues should be acknowledged and understood.
Avoid – Be cautious if using dating websites, dating apps and social situations aimed at introduction. Not the best time for sports competition and activities that need a great deal of confidence and gumption. Leadership roles aren’t favored.
Not a good time to give him ultimatums and deadlines.
Week 1 – China in your Hands
With Mercury opposite Neptune he’s quite noncommittal now because he tends to question your relationship and he could be uncertain of what’s next. He’s keeping his options open, and even in committed relationships, he’ll delay and procrastinate. He’s undergoing some self-reflection and he’s almost turning inward for answers unsure of what he’ll find and he’s projecting a very confusing every. Don’t rush him or crowd him, the more you allow him to relax in your company, the more he’ll open up, but he hates pressure.
In dating or marriage, he’s pretty vague and you may question his motives. However, he’s quite impressionable and with a little creativity and charm, you are able to influence him. So in practical terms you may find him frustrating, but if you want to inspire romance and escapism, he’s china in your hands.
So remember to work through suggestions, be less direct and steer him gently towards your way of thinking.
He’s quite open and so use that to get closer to him but with an emphasis on understanding and emotional closeness and less emphasis on details and day-to-day concerns.
Week 2 – Confronting his inner tiger
This is a rather intense week and some long-repressed feelings will come to the surface. Often it’s issues to do with finances or key decisions that bring out the tiger in Pisces man, but he’s far more likely to be stubborn, confrontational and have a more abrasive response to certain issues.
It’s almost like you may be inadvertently rubbing salt in wounds when sometimes he becomes rather testy unexpectedly, however, this is a wonderful time (whether you’ve known him a long time or only recently dating) to get to grips with what is going on at a psychological level, it may be a time of discovery in relationship where you see sides of him that you have yet not discovered.
In existing relationships, you may also get to find out what his true feelings are on any recent issues, because his emotions are a lot closer to the surface and while he’s more defensive, he’s ultimately quite revealing.
Week 3 – Let’s Quit
This is an excellent week for any couples that need to get to the bottom of things. It’s a great time for purging and that means trying to quit habits together, going on a health kick or encouraging in each other to do things like exercise more, quit smoking or quit drinking.
It’s also a time in relationships to dig deep, don’t avoid things. This is certainly a time when you should be resolute and stoic in terms of tackling either long or short-term issues, often it’s a good time to be more proactive about finances and to get advice on any lingering issues.
The important factor now is, if there are any big question marks within your life or your finances, try and resolve these or at least put in a concerted effort to get them sorted out.
Week 4 – Playing Safe
With Mars opposite Uranus in Taurus, this is a turbulent week for all star signs, there are many unexpected events in terms of the wider political, social sphere or even the weather, and so this is a time when everyone’s feeling a little bit stressed out, on edge and uncertain.
For Pisces Man, this can be a very unpredictable week in terms of both short and long distance travel, so these are best avoided. Actually, it’s a great week for you guys to have a staycation, to work from home or to focus on the personal and private aspects of your life and to be quite self-contained. This is a less good time for any adventure sports or risky activities, so the key thing now is to consolidate, play it cool.
This is quite a revealing, but also a challenging month.
It’s challenging because you guys may have to deal with highly charged emotional issues and often finances are a flashpoint, but this is an enormously good time to get a deeper understanding of each other and take that forward by being more holistic in terms of your relationship.
So while it’s important to have some serious discussions, and while there may even be some confrontation as the month goes on, there’s an opportunity for healing, forgiveness and then breaking new ground. Put your heads together as to get on top of the problems you ultimately have to face or anything that’s holding you back right now, and people-pleasing an obfuscation must go out the window as you get really serious about making things in your life work.
Wishing you love and luck with your Pisces Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,