Every month the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, you may not always understand the needs and desires of the Pisces man. However, there are simple things that you can do based on the monthly energy to improve your relationship with the Pisces man. Find out how to attract a Pisces man in May 2020.
Attracting a Pisces Man in May 2020
1. Listen to Him
If you want to attract and win the heart of a Pisces man in May 2020, listen to him when he tells you what he likes, wants, and needs.
With the transit Sun in Taurus highlighting his third house of self-expression until May 20, the Pisces man may be more focused, grounded, and motivated than usual. He is more willing to identify and express his physical and mental needs.
During this period, make active listening a requirement in your daily conversations. If you find it hard to understand him emotionally, you may be overthinking when he speaks. So instead, keep your thoughts clear when he’s talking. This way you won’t miss any important information he may give.
You should also make a point not to make assumptions during this time. As a mutable water sign, the Pisces man is very mystical and mysterious. You will have a hard time reading his emotions or thoughts at any given moment or time.
The more you listen to him, the more he will open up. When the Pisces man feels comfortable, safe, and secure, he is like an open book. He will tell you story after story until he suddenly falls asleep or you tell him to shut up!
When the Sun leaves Gemini and enters his fourth house of Cancer on May 20, you may notice that his mood shifts and he becomes more emotionally unstable and withdrawn.
This is because Cancer’s water nature intensifies his sensitivity to others. And with the fourth house ruling privacy and emotional security, he is more guarded and protective about letting others in.
But by proving your loyalty through consistency and observation, you will be one of the few people that get to know the loving Pisces man from the inside out. Enjoy this wonderful gift in May 2020.
2. Respect His Family and Home
About every eighteen months, the planet of love and beauty, Venus, stations retrograde. This year, Venus will station retrograde in Gemini from May 13 to June 25.
During this transit, Venus’s retrograde station will highlight the Pisces man’s fourth house of home and family, showcasing how his relationship with his family affects his love life.
Because of this, you may notice that he’s more attached to his family or more interested in rebuilding his relationship with his children or his connection to childhood memories.
With Gemini naturally being the ruler of adolescence, this transit may bring up intense memories and feelings from his youth for the Pisces man. This possibility is enhanced with transit Mars in Pisces encouraging him to reinvent how he acts and shares his personality all month long.
During this time, find ways to be respectful of his emotions and familial concerns. If he’s busier than usual or doesn’t feel like spending that much time with you, don’t overthink it or overreact.
If possible, encourage him to spend more time with his family. And if there is unresolved tension at home, remind him that talking it out and asking for/accepting forgiveness is the best way to move forward.
On a romantic level, Venus’s retrograde station in his fourth house may cause some miscommunication problems about your future. You may feel like he’s not being open enough about his feelings or what he expects.
Although this is frustrating, don’t push him. Remember that the fourth house in Astrology doesn’t always represent the physical home—sometimes “trouble at home” can mean trouble within himself.
By being patient and respectful of his domestic concerns, you are subconsciously showing him that you can be a great wife and mother in the future.
If you are already a great wife or mother, or if that isn’t in your plans, this Venus retrograde season is a testament to your willingness to be the best partner possible.
This will draw the Pisces man to you in May 2020.
3. Be Conscious of His Emotions
With Mercury in Gemini highlighting his fourth house of emotional security until May 28, the Pisces man may be more sensitive, introspective, and private than usual.
Naturally, the Pisces man is careful about who he shares his intimate thoughts and feelings with. But with inquisitive Mercury in empathetic Pisces stimulating his thoughts, his vulnerable nature can easily be taken advantage of.
For this reason, May 2020 is a great time to let the Pisces man know that you not only respect but appreciate his gift of intense feeling.
Instead of giving him unsolicited advice and telling him how you think he should feel, back off and give your Pisces man a little more time to adjust to the fast-paced changes of airy Gemini.
He doesn’t need you to hold his hand. He just needs you to be respectful of how he feels.
You may also want to make sure you aren’t boring your Pisces man with watered-down facts and surface-level ideas. As a mystical water sign, the Pisces man wants to go deep. He wants to be mentally stimulated on an esoteric level.
If you find that he is acting more emotional or unstable, never tell him that he’s being “too emotional,” “too sensitive,” or “too shy.” These are no-no phrases for the Pisces man.
Instead, remind him how loved, accepted, and cared for he is.
Make sure you keep up the constant reminders, especially when Mercury leaves airy Gemini and moves into watery Cancer on May 28.
During this transit, you can stop focusing so much on protecting his feelings and instead encourage him to create from them.
Read next: How to Keep a Pisces Man Wanting You Once You Catch Him?
4. Don’t Be Afraid to Make the First Move
After five weeks of him feeling physically tied down and sexually withdrawn, May is a brand new beginning in the romance department for the Pisces man.
With the transit Mars starting a new cycle in his first house of Pisces on May 13, this is the perfect time to start a new relationship or create new patterns in love.
I’ve found that whenever Mars transits the first house, men naturally experience an increase in libido and sexual desire. They tend to be more adventurous and confident in their lovemaking skills and romantic displays of affection.
So to show him that you’re aware of his new look, style, or overall self-esteem, be bold and do something unusual. Take a risk and step outside your comfort zone. Make the first move.
If for someone reason he’s busier than usual or more focused on doing his own thing (which is very common when Mars in the first house), remember that you are worthy of his attention. You don’t have to chase him.
As an intuitive water sign, the Pisces man is always picking up on hidden signals. But if you want to take your relationship to the next level, you need to make sure that he understands your intentions.
Make it clear to him that you want to get to know him better or see him more. Don’t sugarcoat or disguise your true feelings. Take advantage of this opportunity and shoot your shot.
If you are willing to listen to him, respect his family, be conscious of his emotion, and boldly express your feelings, you will attract the Pisces man in May 2020.
Just remember that the Pisces man is full of secrets, so for you to build and maintain the relationship of your dreams, you need to understand the Pisces man on a fundamental level. Make sure you stay updated with the blog to learn How to Attract a Pisces Man in June 2020.
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Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
