Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Pisces man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Pisces man or improve your relationship with one in April 2020.
Show Him You Care
Whether he tells you or not, April 2020 is a month of increased fulfillment and personal earning power for the Pisces man and his relationships.
As a mutable water sign, the Pisces man is naturally romantic, sentimental, and loving.
But with the transit Sun in Aries highlighting his second house of values and beliefs, the Pisces man may be more impulsive and assertive than usual.
In astrology, the Sun says a lot about what the Pisces man wants to experience and achieve on an external level.
The Sun shows us things like how other people see him, how he experiences life, how he expresses his personality, and what his current focus is at the moment.
During this transit, the Pisces man is focused on creating steady relationships that inspire passion and creativity. He wants to know that you bring value and care to his life.
Because the second house is naturally ruled by Taurus, you should shower him with feelings of affection and appreciation. Make a point to be considerate and respectful of his beliefs and personal possessions.
If you want to keep this sensitive man on your radar this month, then you need to be resourceful with his time and energy.
Instead of just talking about how much he means to you, show him.
Spoil him with random thoughtful gifts, private lavish dinners, and spontaneous romantic getaways.
If going out isn’t an option, find fun ways to cater to your Pisces man at home.
I suggest sensual treats like strawberries and cream for breakfast in bed and cooking dinner so he can rest.
By showing him consistently that you care for him and his values, you are on the path to winning the heart of your Pisces man in April 2020.
Make Him Feel Accepted
With transit Venus in Gemini highlighting his fourth house of roots and origins, you may find the Pisces man is more expressive of his private thoughts and feelings.
In astrology, Venus says a lot about what the Pisces man will want and need out of a relationship.
Venus shows what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
Venus in Gemini for the Pisces man is a time of emotional introspection and self-learning. Gemini’s airy influence encourages him to spend time reconnecting to his inner circle and family.
During this period, it would be in your best interest to help the Pisces man feel understood and accepted. You should try to connect with him on a deeper mental and emotional level.
If possible, spend time getting to know his family—even over video chat—or doing some of his favorite activities from childhood. If he likes you, he may even take you to some of the places that made him feel safe and accepted as a kid.
On a romantic level, he may be more inquisitive and ask you more questions than usual, so be willing to open up.
Although it may feel like he’s questioning you, he’s testing to see how much he can trust you and analyzing if you are compatible on a long-term basis.
I know sometimes it’s hard to read the Pisces man, but with Venus in Gemini encouraging him to express himself and share on a romantic level, focus on honoring his emotions and feelings in a caring way.
This is one of the many secrets to attracting a Pisces man.
Read next: Signs A Pisces Man Is Into You – Is He Being Nice or Does He Really Like You?
Help Him Relax
In astrology, Mercury shows us how the Pisces man processes, receives, and sends information on an internal and external level.
Mercury affects how he expresses his emotions, how he processes thoughts, how he perceives life, and what he wants to communicate to the world at the current moment.
With Mercury in Aries highlighting his second house of gains and losses until April 27, the Pisces man may be more ambitious, impulsive, and anxious than usual.
Naturally, the Pisces man is moody, reflective, and shy, so it can be difficult for him to relax.
But with quick-fire Mercury in Aries stimulating his thoughts, his sensitive nature can easily become overwhelmed.
For this reason, April 2020 is a great time to find helpful ways for him to relax.
You should try taking him on calming walks, stimulating runs, and rejuvenating swims to keep his body active and his mind relaxed. It may be fun (and helpful) to do some intense workouts to release any built-up tension or unexpressed emotion he may be holding.
If you find that he is acting more distant, cold, or snappish with you than usual, remind him that you are his friend and not his enemy.
By expressing consideration for his feelings and helping him relax, you will earn the respect and trust of the Pisces man in April 2020.
Read next: 7 Pisces Man Traits That Will Help You Understand His Behavior
Give Him Time to Rest
In relationships, Mars represents how the Pisces man desires affection and sex and how he will respond to the expectations set by his Venus.
With transit Mars in Aquarius highlighting his twelfth house of ending, undoing, and seclusion, the Pisces man may come across more withdrawn, secluded, and emotionally unavailable than usual.
During this period, take a detached approach in love.
With the transit Mars ending a cycle in his twelfth house, this isn’t the best time to push your opinions and expectations on him, so give him space and time to rest.
I’ve found that whenever Mars transits the twelfth house, men naturally experience a reduction in libido and sexual interests. They tend to be more distant and reserved in their love and display of affection.
To show him that you support his time of rest and reflection, surrender to his desires and let him take the lead.
If he doesn’t feel like talking on the phone and he only wants to text, don’t fuss. If he wants to sleep for four hours in the middle of the day because he’s tired, let him sleep. The best thing you can do right now is to respect his needs and privacy.
If you can do the things I’ve suggested to attract a Pisces man in April, I believe there are so many good things to come for you in May. So make sure you stay updated with the blog to see How to Attract a Pisces Man in May 2020.
Just remember that the Pisces man is full of secrets, so for you to build and maintain the relationship of your dreams, you need to understand the Pisces man on a fundamental level.
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Share your experiences in the comments below—I’d love to hear them!
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
We have broken and he don t want the be in contact with me ..although he told he is in love with me..he is married …but told to friends not happy..he told me that he is happy with me…
Hi Sa!
Your situation may always be an issue because he’s married honey. Do you want to be someone side chic? I think you love him more than that and want him to be your one and only but unless he becomes free then that won’t happen. He probably does love you but if he’s dedicated to his current wife/family then he’s not going to leave them. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
Maam how will I show care and respect to my husband when he is not with me and not talking to me on phn even .
Rather he don’t care and talk about his son too..
He is totally on his mother’s side.She guides him wrong.she is not a good woman.
Pls suggest me what should I do
Hi Sarita!
I think I would show up where he lives and tell him that you need to talk to him right now. Tell him exactly how you feel and what you want. Tell him that for the good of your children, you need to come to a compromise going forward. If he won’t agree then you will have to let go. Make sure you get child support though if he’s not going to actively be around. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
I was (still am) married to a Pisces’ man for 30yrs, then he went cold. Just as you’ve described. We had a relationship you described. I love and adore him. We’ve been separated for nearly 2 years but it’s only been 6 weeks since he cut off all communication. Any suggestions on how to get him back before it’s too late?
Hi Zerlinda!
It sounds like he’s made a decision he doesn’t want to go backwards. Once they decide you’re not the “one”, they typically move on until they do find the person they think is that one even if he’s only deluding himself with fantasy. I think for now you should let go and let him miss you. If he thinks at all that you are the right person, he’ll come back. If he doesn’t then he won’t. I suspect he’s already decided. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
Anna,
I wonder where a Pisces stands with having an affair at what point does it become more and could they just simply be in denial about it because they don’t like the confrontation and pain it will cause others in their family? Can they indeed love 2 people? Started as fwb but feels like so much more after almost 5yrs. WOuld love some of your insight.
Hi Tara!
They are lovers and so yes they can love more than one person at a time. It’s not ideal but it can happen if he’s being indecisive. Ultimately he needs to weigh the pros and cons of what he’s doing and figure out what is the best for all involved. If he cannot do that then you need to step up and tell him ship up or ship out. Don’t allow him to continue to play with you both. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
It’s been 5 months since the breakup I have tried the no contact rule twice but I find him worse than before. He makes very mean comments I don’t what to believe he is emotionally abusive.
Hi Fardous!
Well, you telling me you are aware that he is emotionally abusive means that you desire that. Look at what you said to me. You should leave him and not look back. Abuse is NOT ok and he’s not going to change honey. Unless you’re a glutton for punishment then let go and find someone who will treat you far better and allow you to be yourself. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.
I met a Pisces man 6yrs ago. He was married but separated, and also in a relationship with a woman he was unhappy with.
Then he met Me and Bang ..deep emotion beautiful relationship! But..in secret behind her back.
I was married and very unhappy too so began seeing Pisces behind my husbands back.
It was all very complicated because I had just had a baby which Pisces knew about so he backed away during my pregnancy. But came back to me when she was born.
THIS is when we began seeing each other.
When pregnant it was just glances (we met at the gym).
Over the past 6yrs its been break up/get back together; on again/off again; back and forth, and all because I never left my husband for him.
And as a result, he became insecure so left me and stayed with his partner!?
He became divorced in 2016 from his ex wife but he still STAYED with his partner!?
He told me he was getting a flat but didnt. I told him “Ill divorce my husband now.”
But as he never left his partner, I never divorced my husband.
He left me AGAIN. So I told him to Get Lost.
I was sick of his back and forth. Mote so he was divorced and had no reason to stay with her except Security. He was using her for money too. And using me it felt like.
So now I am painfully divorced and Pisces has pulled his disappearing act again! He hasnt called or texted me in a week. He hasnt done this to me for nearly a year!
Even when the lockdown started he was staying in touch.
Now? Its just total SILENCE and I’m in agony.
What shall I do?
Hi Karyn!
Wait so he was already juggling two women then added you to the mix? There is no way you can be happy with that right? It’s impossible to have that level of a bond with someone who is emotionally unavailable hence why he already has two women. You see what all he’s done to you? He doesn’t deserve you and you should walk and not look back. Learn more about Pisces by reading my book “Pisces Man Secrets”.