Hello, my gorgeous ladies! There is much to know about Pisces men. These guys are incredibly gentle, romantic, and exceptionally creative. If you want to get swept off your feet, then going for a Pisces man is the answer.
These guys really know how to make a woman feel loved and worshipped, but these slippery fish can be rather fickle and flighty as well. One minute you think you’re on your way to an amazing long-lasting relationship with him, and the next he’s disappeared.
One thing is for sure, these guys know how to keep you on the tips of your toes, and there is always something exciting going on with them. But, how can you tell if there is a future for the two of you?
He’s so darn romantic one moment, and the next you haven’t heard from him in days! This can be really confusing. I wouldn’t know how to go forward from here either! But don’t worry, Astrology will always give us some extra insight into these gentlemen.
If you’re looking to tell if there is a future for you and your Pisces man, then look no further. I have come up with this informative list to help guide you in knowing every little thing to do with your Pisces guy. This should really help you in figuring out how to move forward.
5 Ways to Tell If There’s A Future With a Pisces Man
1. He Goes Out Of His Way For You
A Pisces man is incredibly caring. This guy has a huge heart and a compassionate soul. This makes him empathetic and kind. He’s the type of guy who will go above and beyond for anyone, but especially for the woman he cares about.
He is naturally a people pleaser and wants to make the people he cares about feel special and loved. Pisces man is extremely intuitive, so if there is ever anything going on with you, he will definitely pick it up in an instant.
He isn’t afraid of sharing his support and will make time to listen to you with whatever you have going on in your life. If he can feel that you are in pain, he will want to take it away from you and help you in any way he can.
A Pisces man isn’t afraid of putting the needs of others above his own. He feels so deeply that he just wants everyone in his life to feel happy and like they are in a good place in their life. And if there is something he can do to improve your situation, you can bet he’ll do it for you!
2. He Wants To Grow With You
One of your Pisces man’s best attributes is his willingness to grow and reach a new level of understanding about something. In truth, this guy is a bit of a seeker. He is open to learning new things and loves to gain a fresh perspective on something.
Pisces man is especially concerned with spiritual growth and you can often find him on a yoga mat or involved in some kind of spiritual group. He wants to understand the world on a deeper level and will always be open to exploration.
If he expresses a desire to go on some type of spiritual journey with you, then the likelihood that he sees a future with you is quite high. He wants to dive deeper and get to know you on such an intimate level, and this isn’t something he would want to do with just anyone.
He will be selective about who he shares this side of himself to because this is when he is at his most vulnerable. And a Pisces man is rather sensitive, and wouldn’t risk showing this gentle side of himself to just anyone.
3. He Becomes Interested In Your Interests Or Hobbies
The energy of a Pisces man is to absorb the world around him, and then to kind of morph into that energy. He is a bit of a shape shifter and can take on different roles, it just depends on who he spends his time with. He’s really good at fitting in.
You will easily be able to tell that there is a future with him by the amount he picks up on your characteristics and interests. Because he wants to loved so much, he might try to transform into a version of himself that you will find most appealing.
It isn’t uncommon to see a Pisces completely change his personality based on the person he spends most of his time with. This characteristic can be flattering, but it is definitely something you need to watch out for as well.
It is important for you to encourage your Pisces partner to focus on their own goals and hobbies and to do the things that bring him the most joy. You wouldn’t want him to lose the beauty of his essence because he is changing himself into someone else.
This can stem from insecurity and not feeling good enough, so really instill some self-confidence in him and let him know that he perfect and lovable just the way he is already! A Pisces can quickly become anything for anyone, and this is definitely a trait they need to keep an eye on.
4. He Asks You On A Date
One thing to note with a Pisces man is that he probably one of the shyest signs in the Zodiac. He isn’t a trailblazer or a go-getter like Aries, Gemini, or Sagittarius. This guy is rather shy, and tends to keep to himself.
He is quite wary about putting his heart on the line and usually waits for the woman to make the first move. So, if a Pisces man is ever the one to initiate a date, trust me, he is super into you and definitely sees a future with you.
You should be really flattered because this is definitely not something he is accustomed to doing. Aren’t you a lucky girl!
5. He Opens Up About His Needs & Expectations
Unfortunately, Pisces men have a bit of a reputation of being flakey. I think the term ghosting must have stemmed by the actions of one of them. These guys don’t do particularly well with confrontation or dealing with difficult interactions.
They would much rather just disappear and never think about the situation again. So, if a Pisces man ever expresses his wanting a committed relationship with you, just know you have something quite special.
This guy can fall in love with almost anyone, this is because he has the ability to notice the beauty in each and every person walking this earth. And this is definitely not an overstatement, but this does mean he has a hard time committing to one person.
Because one minute he’s into this woman, the next it is someone else. This is why him expressing his desire for a long-term relationship with you is definitely a big deal. He knows there are many fish in the sea, but guess what, he still chooses you!
He’ll be quite clear about what his expectations are and what he needs from you in a relationship. He expects you to share your desires with him as well, after all, he aims to please and wants to make you as happy as can be in your relationship.
It is really important that the two of you have really good communication with one another. Remember, your Pisces man lives in a bit of a haze of confusion, so sometimes he sees the world rather fuzzily. This is why open and honest communication is imperative with your Pisces guy.
Read next: 7 Secret Ways A Pisces Man Expresses Love
My Final Thoughts
Dating a Pisces man is honestly a wonderful experience. It is some of the sweetest and most romantic types of love you are ever likely to feel. Being with a Pisces guy is almost like walking on a cloud because it genuinely feels like a dream.
He can be a little difficult to understand at times, and sometimes his actions don’t really align with his words. Just know that his intentions are usually quite pure and if he hurts you, it is definitely not his meaning and will likely be riddled with guilt about it for a very long time.
Are you dating a Pisces guy? What has your experience been with him thus far? Do you also think he’s flaky and a little non-committal? Or has he shown you how loving and committed he can be?
I am so interested in hearing what your experience has been like, so please leave me a comment in the section below. It is always so fascinating hearing what your lived experiences are like with these men!
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Wishing you so much love and joy.
Your sister and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
Mein Fisch will mich nicht…ich lasse ihn in Ruhe….love you Anna ??
Hi Martina!
Es tut mir so leid, diesen Schatz zu hören. Da draußen muss jemand anders besser für dich sein. Stark bleiben. Ich wünsche dir das Beste!
Hi Anna we have been married for 13 years things are going great thank you for sharing this.
Hi Geraldine!
Wow 13 years? That is amazing! I am so very happy to hear that things are going well. You clearly figured out the formula that works between you. Fantastic! I wish you nothing but the very best in the years to come sweetheart. Thank you for sharing!
Wow!!! You nailed it … and I am excited to be His… Unique story, We met 38 yrs ago but I was engaged… he said I broke his heart.. ( I had no idea) His wife of 15 years just passed away of breast cancer in March 2021… His Grief counselor said to call 3 people he hasn’t talked to in a long time… the stars aligned he saw me on Linked in, After talking , here I performed his wife’s Biopsy for Breast cancer and never knew it I’m giving him room to Greve… I’ve been getting mixed signals from him… just like you said but I never realized I think it’s because he’s a Pisces…AND grieving… so thank you for helping me to navigate during these times
Hi Danielle Fenohr!
That is quite an amazing story. Thank you for sharing it with me! Yes indeed, the stars aligned for you two. I am so very glad I could help you in any way. Clients like you make it well worth my time to keep doing what I’m doing. As long as you understand him, you’ll be just fine honey. I wish you both all the happiness in the world!
I have been with a pisces man and he’s hot and cold but I can say we had a lot of good times together.. he’s the first man I could ever be myself around it’s very caring and nice to me.. I met his mom and family and friends we been on trips together he’s shared a lot with me he’s even cried a few times in front of me. I really care about him
Hi Lisa Cash!
Thank you for writing in and sharing your story with me Lisa. It sounds like you’ve found a good one. Make sure you keep communication open so you keep him. Find the formula that works for you both. I wish you both all the happiness in the universe!
He started out the best man I have EVER experienced. Then at a drop of a dime he turned into a completely different man. Narcissistic. Mean. With no warning. Cheated on me and left.
Hi Tee!
Ouch yes they can turn if they start feeling as though it’s not working. Instead of just breaking it off, they get cold and mean. I’m sorry you had to go through that honey. He wasn’t committed to you like you thought he was and when he was ready to be done, he turned into a total jerk so you’d let him go. It doesn’t make much sense but they don’t think straight when it comes to this sort of thing. Please take care of yourself and heal before you find someone else. You need it! Be gentle and do things you love. I wish you all the love you deserve!
Your spot on about my Pisces man. He can be so sweet like a sugar cube you’d never believe its the same person in one instant, then hard as stone and grumpy. But, its because he feels the atmosphere around him and changes. He can be so sweet caring and loveable, its hard to believe he’s the same man in his body. I wish his sweetness never change. He had or has plans moving down south..Its like he can’t .plan an event for himself..he has moved his furnature down to where he’s retiring I followed him from up North to down South. He’s not moving this year til retirement fizzles out. But soon. I don’t know if I should make this transitional move..he is so Virgoish, not that, no to that bossy. In my own apt. I do love him..he tells me every day. Is he just rattling my cage..Does he know what true love is..
Hi Linda Daley!
They are not too far off from Bi-Polar sometimes and actually many of them actually do suffer from the disorder. Some have anxiety and depression as well so it’s not at all unusual for their feelings to swing all over the place. They find it hard to get organized and flowing with their feelings. I think true love is something he learns over time. I think you should trust your natural instincts and do what’s best for you. Either he’ll get with the program or he’ll fall off. I wish you all the happiness you deserve!
i have known my pisces man for years. We only just recently started talking again. We couldnt talk years ago because i was married. He understood it but was so in love with me. after years had passed we were reunited. He expressed to me that he still wanted to get a chance to love me….and actually get a chance to spend time with me. He said ” he needed to be in my presence. ‘We have bumped heads a couple to times because he has been cheated on by EVERY last relationship. I have realized why…. he & i have been talking since early this year (2021) , he has a comfort zone and i think i disrupted it a couple of times. He is very sweet and loving and caring. He calls me every day all throughout the day. He says he loves me. we have spent quality time together and it was WONDERFUL . i think he could be the one!!
Hi Tiffany!
Wow that’s quite an experience. You’re right, he could be the one for you. Only you will know that for sure honey. It’s wonderful you two have gotten together after much time. Sometimes the right love comes when the timing isn’t right so it’s wonderful it’s come back around at the right time now. Blessings to you sweetheart!
Been dating a Pisces man over 20 years. I want him gone. He is a cheater, moody, mean, mental abusive and alcoholic and has LOTS of Narcissistic tendencies He is NEVER satisfied. I want him gone.
Hi Karen!
Oh ouch! I don’t blame you. If you know it’s over then it’s best for you to break it off clean and close the door of communication. Tell him the time is up and you don’t deserve the way he is. Addiction ruins relationships and people. I’m so so sorry. Save yourself sweetheart. I wish you nothing but the healing and love that you deserve!
I was with a p.man for 22 yrs then i found out 2 yrs ago hed been lieing and cheating so i put him out best move i did we havnt spoken for over a yr his partner wont let him talk to me i put in for a divorce he wont sign it on my friends birthday last yr i meet a libra man then on my birthday we got together so far all good looking forward to a better man who doesnt control me like the ex did it was hard to take but im out of that black hole now for sure
Hi rachael!
I’m sorry you went through what you did with your Pisces. I’m glad they’re not all like this. Trust me when I tell you that they aren’t. You got a bad seed. If things are looking great with your Libra man then yes… stick with it. Be sure to check out my Libra blog for more helpful information. Blessings to you!