What can you do to get the beautiful Pisces man’s attention and make him want to chase you? How do you get this man to come to you and make you his? Keep reading for 3 effective methods for getting a Pisces man to chase you.
Being Yourself at All Times
The Pisces man has a built in b.s. detector. That means that he can tell when someone isn’t being their authentic self. He wants a woman who isn’t afraid to be herself and is confident.
Show him who you are by being his friend. Get to know him, get to know what he likes, what he wants, and what he dreams of. Talk to him and tell him about you too. The more you tell him the more intrigued he is.
Don’t tell him everything though. Be sure to leave some mystery because if he knows everything up front he may get bored and that could lead to him not chasing you but rather walking away.
Let him see your inner beauty as well as your outer beauty. He will be so enthralled he’ll have a hard time not wanting to chase you. You’ll quickly gain a spot in his regular thoughts.
Many amazing love stories begin with a woman being friends with a Pisces man. He actually does prefer to be friends first even if the romance develops quickly. It’s just the fact that you are taking the time to try to get to know him and get into his heart.
The more comfortable he feels with the real you, the more he’ll want to be around you which then moves into territory of becoming more friends. He’ll chase you if he feels you’re someone who is worth his efforts.
Be The Woman He Wants
How can you do this? I gave you one step that is part of the program. Something else you’ll need to do is be sure to show him that you’re there for him if he wants to talk. When he doesn’t want to, leave him alone.
Don’t ever pressure him to talk to you when he doesn’t feel up to doing so. Don’t ever make him feel guilty for not opening up to you. Let him call the shots on when he wants to talk. He’ll be far more comfortable with this.
If you show him that you’re someone he CAN talk to when he wants to versus a woman that demands he open up, you’ll more than likely win his affection and get him chasing after you.
He’s a very private person so when you respect his privacy and need for space, you’re showing him that you really care for him which is a really winning number to obtain the Pisces man’s heart.
Show him great care. What I mean by this is giving him sweet compliments, treating him to small but meaningful gifts, let him know how special he is to you. At the same time, give him freedom.
In other words, don’t text him constantly then when he finally stops answering, you panic. That’s something that will scare him off. Don’t let that happen. To get him chasing after you, you’ve got to make him miss you a little bit.
Don’t allow yourself to be 100% available for him. Keep your life, do what makes you happy, and he will pursue you as long as he knows that you want to be with him or are interested in him.
When he develops feelings for you, he will want to try to be with you as much as possible. When you deny him of that constant access, he will want to come after you even more.
Make sure you make plans with your friends or family. Don’t cancel plans you have with him but if he tries to make new plans with you yet you’ve already got something on your agenda, just let him know you’ll have to re-schedule with him.
Enhance Your Connection
What the Pisces man wants the most is a really deep connection with a woman of whom he thinks can be his one and only. That means that you’ve got to make sure he gets to know you.
I mentioned being friends first before which is just the beginning. Open up to him about important things such as your values, the way you see life, and most importantly your dreams or desires for your life.
Let him in on your goals or secret passions. He’ll absolutely appreciate that you let him in and shared that information with him. He’ll feel very special and will in return, show you something just as beautiful.
To get him chasing you, you’ve got to be sweet, caring, stable, give him his space when he wants it, and not always be available. I touched on that before but it’s really important that you understand this.
Pisces man once committed will want to spend more time WITH you than WITHOUT you. However in the beginning, he’s going to want to still be his own man and let things evolve over time.
It typically doesn’t take too long for a Pisces man to start chasing the woman whom he thinks is “the one”. As soon as he realizes you’re everything he could ever dream, he’ll be sprinting after you.
Show him your generous nature and how amazing you really are. That’s all that’s really required here. Be your normal self and show him who you are on the inside. He wants a woman who is everything.
By everything I mean empathetic, sweet, caring, and secure. He wants someone he can trust to always be honest with him and yet someone who knows how to speak to his heart.
When he doesn’t speak up, respond quick enough, or seems to disappear for a day or two, be patient. Don’t think the worst. Just send a text that lets him know you’re thinking of him and he should come running!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,