How To Attract A Pisces Man In May 2021

May is a great month for new love or sparking a new connection. It’s Taurus season, a harmonious month with lots of collective traits the Pisces man can appreciate. He is feeling balanced and down-to-earth, yet open to new friendships and romantic possibilities. Remember, this independent fish can be hard to pin down! But there are things you can do and should know to catch his interest…

How To Attract A Pisces Man In May 2021

1. Show You Have Many Dimensions

May is Taurus season, and Taurus has many different qualities and strengths. More importantly, Taurus and Pisces are compatible, and this makes May a great month for finding a connection with the Pisces man. There are many ways you can connect with him. 

Firstly, the romantic, sensual, and down-to-earth energy of Taurus is making him feminine and ‘Zen.’ This Pisces man has a laid-back and easy-going energy about him – it’s very attractive! He also finds these qualities attractive. So, you may want to reflect on how you can project the image of a relaxed and modest Goddess (yes, it’s always divine with Pisces…) as best as possible.

Taurus isn’t just humble and chilled, however, as this multi-talented earth sign is also intelligent, reliable, and highly responsible. Whether it’s concern for other humans or the environment, wishing to spend endless hours dedicated to charity or selfless pursuits, or immersing oneself in creative, artistic, business, or academic/intellectual advancement, the Taurus sign represents commitment and devotion to a cause. This is your opening. 

Ask the Pisces man questions, seek out a connection, discover key aspects of his life and personality, and find ways to form a bond. There are multiple ways to attract his attention and hold it. This Astrological season’s planetary ruler is Venus, the planet of love, beauty, romance, sensuality, and pleasure. The Pisces man is feeling very connected to these things, especially until the 19th/20th. 

2. Shower Him In Compliments

There is a big universal YES to affection and compliments this month. Continuing on about planet Venus, there is heightened romantic and loving energy in the air until the 19th. Taurus season brings a unique sensation of inner harmony. He is feeling balanced, self-assured and in control of his emotions and thoughts. 

There is a vibe of maturity yet also playfulness and flirtiness. It’s okay to show your flirty and playful side through light touch, positive and suggestive body language, and compliments and flattery. 

Pisces is naturally instinctive and sensual – he is a feminine and ‘yin’ sign after all. This makes him magnetic, receptive, and more introverted than extroverted. The Pisces man understands the power of silence and space, not everything has to be action-focused or full of sounds, chatter, movement, and the like. 

And this provides for deeper and more profound moments of connection. It is in the silence and spaces where intimacy and instinctual and intuitive awareness arise. 

All in all, don’t be afraid to connect to your instincts and urges for affection or intimacy. Let glimpses of how you would be in a relationship shine through. Be vulnerable and honest with your feelings to win his heart, mind, and soul. A bit of sentimental mush is acceptable this month! 

3. Stay Cool, Zen, & Spiritually Open

It’s all about the cool, calm, and collective vibes… Taurus energy is very, very Zen and down-to-earth. The link to Venus also opens one up to spirituality and the sublime and divine. Awe-inspiring, majestic, and elevated vibes are collectively shining down for the first two thirds of the month. 

Cold, superficial, gregarious or brash words, speech and energy won’t cut it! These are a turn off for a Pisces man this May. Unless he is miraculously a Pisces sun but with all his other planets in air and fire signs, you won’t be able to find a connection if you are insensitive by nature. You might want to check out your compatibility at this stage too. 

A much more unassuming and unpretentious approach is called for. This isn’t suggesting to be ordinary, extraordinary vibrations are always favored with the Pisces man. Just be mindful of coming across as loud and self-effacing. 

Being so outgoing and fiery in other months may be okay, yet when the Sun is in Taurus the Pisces man is feeling mega chilled and serene. He responds to peaceful and calm interactions and energies only. 

4. Soulmate Potential?

They say opposites attract… Well, in this case you may want to look towards the Virgo sign. Virgo is kind, caring, helpful, and sincere. Virgo is an earth sign – feminine and introverted in nature and very perceptive and intelligent. Practical, dependable, and duty-focused, Virgo is the opposite of mystical and adaptable Pisces. 

So, you should start to educate yourself on the basics of Astrology and the qualities and strengths of the star signs. Pisces is the most spiritual sign. This man’s planetary ruler is Neptune, the planet of dreams, illusions, mysticism, psychic gifts and spirituality. Instincts and intuition too. 

The Pisces man is a bit of an enigma, he is complex and certainly one of the most empathetic and compassionate beings around. There isn’t much he wouldn’t do for a lover and soulmate. Even if he’s in an open relationship or non-traditional, non-monogamous love match, he will show unconditional love and devotion to his lover. 

Yes, he is prone to fantasy and elusivity. However, the Pisces man has so many beautiful qualities that make it worth your while to research, perhaps even start self-studying or choosing as a career, metaphysics, esoteric wisdom, and a number of ancient topics for the hope and possibility of a potential relationship. 

He’s impressionable, so be impressionable… He is imaginative and spiritually open, so be these things! Pisces is known to turn dreams into reality.

5. Share Your Dreams

If there’s one sure way to make a memorable impact and keep a positive and shining self-image of yourself in his mind, it’s to share your dreams. Speak openly and – quite simply – as much as you want about your aspirations and wishes for the future. 

The Pisces man is mysterious, soulful and empathic, and equally idealistic and connected to inner vision. These traits are amplified by a Full Moon Lunar Eclipse on the 26th. The Lunar Eclipse is happening in creative and fiery Sagittarius, the philosophical and “higher thinking” Archer of the Zodiac.

May is a magical month for the Pisces man. Even if he doesn’t have much going on physically, in the practical and material ‘real world,’ his mind, emotions, and senses are energized. He is attuned to a higher vibration and frequency, energies rooted in oneness and self-realization. 

Essentially, this means his Higher Self is activated and his spirit is soaring! He is open to the ethereal magic of the universe – a Lunar Eclipse is a rare celestial event. It helps us to align with our soul and spiritual selves, and further look to the bigger picture.

Sagittarius knows all about the big picture… Speak openly and freely, shine your weird but wonderful light, and let this guy know you have ambitions, dreams and aspirations. Don’t play it safe or leave out “woo,” esoteric or inspirational topics. The bolder and braver you are the more he will see you as someone he could potentially share his life with.

Read next: 7 Questions to Make a Pisces Man Fall in Love With You

Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits

My Pisces Man Secrets can help you understand this man better. May is a fabulous month for water and earth signs, or anyone with a lot of water and earth in their chart. 

Pay special attention to the New Moon in Taurus on the 11th, as this is an amazing time for chemistry and new sparks that could lead to something long-term in the distant future. 

Also, remember that the Lunar Eclipse amplifies his visionary and creative self. Some poetry, soulful and majestic music, or ‘big picture’ conversation won’t go amiss. 

Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach